Thetha nge-ex yakho kunye neqabane lakho elitsha, indlela yokwenza ngokuchanekileyo?
Ukuba ufuna ukuthetha neqabane lakho elitsha malunga ne-ex yakho, uyazi ngcono ukuba ungayenza njani ukuthintela ukuvela kwenzondo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuthetha neqabane lakho elitsha malunga ne-ex yakho, uyazi ngcono ukuba ungayenza njani ukuthintela ukuvela kwenzondo.
Sikunika ezinye izimvo ukuze ukwazi ukusebenza kwintlungu eveliswa yinkohliso ukuze woyise kwaye uqhubele phambili ngokuqinisekileyo.
Ukuba urhanela ukuba iqabane lakho liyakukhohlisa kunye nomhlobo wakho, ungaphoswa yile miqondiso ikuxelela ukuba awuphazami kakhulu.
Mhlawumbi uqale ubudlelwane nomntu ngentshiseko enkulu kwaye ngequbuliso, uyekile ukubonisa umdla kuwe, kutheni le nto yenzekile?
Abasetyhini abaninzi baneenkxalabo malunga namaqabane abo. Apha sithetha ngezona zinto zixhalabisayo zi-3.
Xa uhlala kuphela ukusebenza, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukufumana iqabane xa ufuna ukukwenza, kodwa njani?
Ukulukula ayisiyonto inzima kakhulu okanye efuna incwadana yemiyalelo ebanzi ... ngamanye amaxesha ukuzenzekelayo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufezekisa.
Sikuxelela ukuba ungayinqoba njani iKrisimesi yedwa, into eyenzeka kubantu abaninzi kwaye ingaba yingxaki.
Ukuba abazali bakho bakwenza buhlungu kulwalamano lwakho, kuya kufuneka ubeke imida ukuze ingakuchaphazeli ngokungaphezulu.
Ngala maqhosha ama-3 unokuba ngumfazi oyinyaniso. Akukho mntu uya kuba nakho ukumelana namakhubalo akho kwaye uya koyisa nabani na omfunayo.
Ukuba unomhlobo omkhulu kwaye uwela umgca wobungane ukuze ube sisibini, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba kukho iingozi kunye neengozi ...
Kukho abazali abathi mhlawumbi ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba kungenelele kakhulu kubudlelwane babantwana babo. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe, kuya kufuneka ubeke imida.
Unokucinga ukuba ukuthandana nomhlobo yeyona ndlela ilula yokuba nobudlelwane obuyimpumelelo, kodwa ineengozi zayo!
Sikunika iingcebiso ezilungileyo zokuphepha ukuthenga ngokunyanzelekileyo ngala maxesha, usebenzisa ingqiqo.
Ukuba awuzithandi ngokwaneleyo, kungcono ukuba awukhangeli mihla yothando. Kufuneka kuqala uzithande ukuze ukwazi ukuthanda abanye ngendlela esempilweni.
Mhlawumbi kudala uzama ukufumana umntu okhethekileyo kodwa waqonda ukuba akukho namnye kubudlelwane bakho osebenzayo, kutheni le nto isenzeka kuwe?
Xa uthandana okanye uqala inkqubo yokuthandana uziva ulonwabo olungachazekiyo, luphawu lokuba luthando lokwenene!
Intlungu yentliziyo inokuba yinto yokwenyani kulwalamano oluthile, kungcono ukuba uyiqonde kwaye awuphili uzikhohlisa wena kunye nabanye.
Xa iinkqubo zifika kubudlelwane, unokucinga ukuba uthando luyaphela, kodwa enyanisweni kuya kufuneka uphinde uvuselele intlantsi.
Sikuxelela ukuba zeziphi izitshixo esinokuthi sizisebenzise ukuze sifunde ukonwaba kule mihla yethu, ngezimbo zomzimba ezilula.
Mhlawumbi ulufumene uthando lobomi bakho kodwa awukaluqondi okwangoku ... Sikuxelela imiqondiso eya kukunceda uyazi ...
Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho lifuna ukuseka ubudlelwane kunye nawe kodwa loloyiko lokwenza impazamo. Le miqondiso ikubonisa ukuba unento yokoyika.
Ukuba iqabane lakho yeyona nto yokugqibela ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze ube ngcono kukungena kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo azenzileyo ... oku kuya kukwenza uzive ubuhlungu ngakumbi!
Ukuba ubungayilindelanga kwaye neqabane lakho likushiyile ... Sukuziva unetyala, into ekufuneka uyenzile kukucinga ngendlela yokoyisa le bump yeemvakalelo.
Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buhamba kakuhle de umfana wakho wayenza yacaca ukuba akafuni ukuzibophelela kuwe, ngoku kuza kuthini?
Fumanisa ukuba zeziphi izibonelelo zengqondo zokuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya, into enokonyusa ulonwabo lwethu kunye nokuphucula ukuzithemba.
Ukuba usebudlelwaneni kodwa ngequbuliso inkwenkwe yakho ikuxelela ukuba ayifuni ubudlelwane obubi ... kwaye kwangaxeshanye akayeki ukukufowunela.
Ukuba uneengxaki kubudlelwane bakho kwaye awazi ukuba kutheni isenzeka, mhlawumbi ingxaki nguwe ... Kufuneka uyiqonde ukuba yinxalenye yesisombululo.
Ungazi njani ukuba iqabane lakho lithandana nawe yonke imihla? Siza kukunika imiqondiso engqina oko.
Kungenzeka ukuba umhlobo okanye umhlobo ukuxelele ukuba bazokutshata kwaye ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba ubonakale umona wokuzibophelela. Ungenzani?
Iinkcukacha zothando ziyimfuneko kulwalamano ukuze luphumelele. Kubudlelwane bakho, ezi nkcukacha azinakuphoswa mihla le.
Sikuxelela ukuba kutheni intuition kufuneka isetyenziswe ngakumbi, ukuba iqulathe ntoni kwaye kufuneka sikwazi kanjani ukuyiqeqesha ngcono.
Ingqayi elula inokwanela ukwenza isipho esifanelekileyo kwiqabane lakho. Sikuxelela ezinye izimvo ukuze ukhethe eyona uyithandayo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba nobudlelwane ngaphandle kwamaqhina kwaye ube nakho ukuwonwabela ... ke kuya kufuneka wazi ezinye izinto onokuzenza kunye nezinye ongenakukwazi ukuzenza.
Uthando lunokubonakala entliziyweni yakho phantse ungakuqondi, kwaye mhlawumbi ubudlelwane obuqale njengesiphazamiso, ...
Ukuba ufuna uthando phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho ukuba luhlale luphelele, kuyakufuneka ukuba unakekelwe! Yenza ezi zinto zintathu kwaye yonke into izakuba ngcono ...
Sikuxelela ukuba ziziphi iimpawu kunye nobuchule bokuba sisithethi esihle esikwaziyo ukunxibelelana nabanye.
Sonke siphume saya kubona umntu okokuqala kwaye sizive sinomtsalane, nokuba ...
Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba uneentloni okanye uneentloni kwaye oko kukuthintela ukuba ungabi nguwe. Ukuba uthanda umntu omaziyo, sele unayo u "hayi"! Thatha inyathelo lokuqala ...
Ukuba uyasokola kuba unothando lweplato olwenza ube nobunzima. Ke siza kukunika iingcebiso ezikwenza uzive ungcono.
Sikuxelela ukuba kunokwenzeka njani ukuba ube ngumntu ophilileyo ngokwengqondo kwaye zeziphi iimpawu zobuntu ezisincedayo.
Ukuba xa uthandana nomhla uyaqonda ukuba akukho ncoko intle ... mhlawumbi eyona nto intle kukuba uyivumele ...
Ngubani othi kufuneka uwunyamezele umhla opheleleyo ukuba awuziva ukhululekile? Kwezi meko, musa ukulinda imizuzu eyi-10 ukuba uhambe.
Ukwahlukana akunakuze kube lula, kodwa ungaphumelela. Ungaphuthelwa kwezi ndlela zingaqhelekanga zokufumana ngaphezulu kwazo kwaye ulunge.
Sikuxelela ukuba ngawaphi amanyathelo asisiseko kunye namaqhosha okuthemba iqabane lakho kwakhona, inkqubo enokuba nzima.
Inyaniso erhabaxa kukuba uninzi lolwalamano lwakho aluyi kuphela ngolonwabo. Kubuhlungu oko, kodwa uya kuyikhusela intliziyo yakho ukuba ...
Mhlawumbi unethemba elininzi kubudlelwane bakho, kodwa kwelinye iqela ayibobudlelwane obubi njengoko ubungathanda ukuba ube njalo ...
Ukuba uya eholideyini kunye neqabane lakho okokuqala, emva koko unokwenza njani ukuba yonke into ihambe kakuhle? Sikunika iingcebiso.
Sikunika isikhokelo kunye neengcebiso zokulawula uhlaselo loxinzelelo, ingxaki enokuthi ivele nangaliphi na ixesha.
Xa ubudlelwane buqhekeka, kufuneka uqiniseke kakhulu ngale nto uyenzayo ... Kodwa eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukuyenza njengomntu omkhulu.
Ukuba ukhe waqhathwa, ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuzithemba kwakho kungonakaliswa kakubi, kodwa unokuzakha ngokwakho ungakhange uqaphele.
Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho langaphambili likushiyile, kodwa ngokuhamba kwexesha uye waqonda ukuba ibisisigqibo esibi ebomini bakhe. Ngaba uxolile ngokwenene?
Ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokufumana iqabane ngokuthandana kwi-Intanethi, awunazintloni, siza kukuxelela ukuba kutheni ... wonwabele umzuzu!
Mde, mhle, uyahlekisa, uhlakaniphile, ugqibile, wabelane ngezinto ozithandayo - xa kuziwa ekuthandeni, sonke sinoluhlu lwethu "lweminqweno." Kodwa ezo ...
Sikubonisa ukuba ujongane njani notshintsho olutsha lonyaka ukuya ekwindla kunye neziphumo ezibandakanya oku, njengokudinwa kwemihla ngemihla.
Akukho mntu ulawula intliziyo, kwaye ukuba uthandene nomphathi wakho ... unokwenza ntoni? Kubalulekile ukugcina intloko epholileyo ...
Ukudlala kwangaphambili kunye nesingqisho kwisini kubalulekile ukuba ube neentlobano zesini ezimnandi kubo bobabini abathandanayo. Sikunika iimfihlo!
Ukuziva uthando lwenene akufani nokuthandana okanye ukuthanda nje ... Ke ngoko, sikufundisa ukuba wahlule ngezi zitshixo zimbini.
Sikuxelela ukuba ungafunda njani ukwanela kwaye woyise ukusilela, kuba le yinto eyenzeka kuye wonke umntu ebomini bakho.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba uzikhuphe kubuxhakaxhaka bokuncokola amaxesha ngamaxesha ukuze ungalahleki kubuhlobo obungenantsingiselo okanye kwi-passivism yentlalo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba isondo lihlale ixesha elide ... Emva koko ungaphoswa yeyiphi eyona nto iphambili kwezesondo, kwaye zeziphi ezimbi.
Ukwazi indlela yokugcina uthando lwakho luphila kunokuba lucelomngeni kunokuba ucinga. Ngelishwa, esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba kutheni ...
Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba iingxabano azinakuphepheka xa uthandana nomntu othandana naye. Nokuba uphambene nesithandwa sakho ...
Ngamanye amaxesha ukuchitha ixesha kunye namandla ngemihla kunye nokuqeshwa ... ayisoloko isisombululo ekukufuneni kwaye ulungile. Sikuxelela ukuba kutheni ...
Sikuxelela ukuba ungabuthintela njani ukutyeba kunxibelelwano lwasentlalweni, ingxaki yangoku echaphazela abantu abaninzi nangakumbi.
Ukuba ukhe wathandabuza ukuba ukwahlukana ne-ex yakho yayilungile okanye umbono ombi, ke ungathandabuzi ukufunda ukuze ufumane.
Unokutsala umntu osebenza naye. Ukuba kunjalo, unokwenza ntoni ukuze ingaphazamisi imveliso yakho?
Ukuba i-ex yakho ikubhalela imiyalezo kodwa uyacaca ukuba ubudlelwane buphukile, ke musa ukuwela kumgibe wabo kwaye ungazenzi ezi zinto.
Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho lithatha ulwalamano lwakho luyinto nje engenamsebenzi, into enokubangela ukungqubana ngaphakathi kunye nokophula yonke into. Wazi njani ukuba oku kuyenzeka?
Mhlawumbi uneqabane kwaye awuyazi indlela yokunciphisa umda "kubuhlobo obukhethekileyo" kwaye ngaphandle kokuqonda oko, unehambo elinemvakalelo. Ungayichonga njani?
Sikuxelela indlela onokuthi uyiphucule ngayo indlela oqhuba ngayo kwizifundo ngokusebenzisa iingcebiso ezilula kunye neendlela onokuthi uzilandele ukuphumelela.
Ungaze uthandane ungakhange udibane naloo mntu ukunqanda ukuphoxeka kwixa elizayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuba unjani omnye umntu!
Ngamanye amaxesha esona sicwangciso silungileyo sokuyeka ukubandezeleka kubudlelwane kukuvumela loo mntu umthandayo ahambe ngonaphakade.
Ukuba isikhumbuzo sakho sisondela kwaye awazi ukuba usibhiyozele njani, ungaphoswa zezi zimvo zithandwayo zintlanu ukuze ukhethe eyona uyithandayo.
Ukuba uhlala uthanda abantu osandula ukudibana nabo, uya kusokola kakhulu ngokungeyomfuneko. Ungayitshintsha ngoku!
Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha iqabane lakho kuba ungayithandi indlela ayiyo, ukwindlela engafanelekanga. Ungaphoswa zezi ngcebiso zokwenza ulwalamano lwakho luhambe ngcono.
Sikunika izikhokelo kunye neengcebiso zokufunda ukuzilungiselela ngakumbi imihla ngemihla, ngamanyathelo alula kunye nemibono oza kuyilandela.
Ungaphoswa ngala mabinzana mathathu anokukwenza ucinge ngobomi bakho bangoku, uya kuthanda ukubazi ukuba ubungabazi ngaphambili!
Umcimbi wezezimali kunye nemali unokuphelisa ubudlelwane obuzinzileyo ukuba izivumelwano macala onke azifikelelwa. Funda indlela yokusebenza kwiqela.
Ngomhla wakho wokuqala kukho izinto ezithile ekubhetele ukuba ungazenzi, ngakumbi ukuba ufuna ndenze idinga kwakhona naloo mntu.
Ukuba udiniwe kukuhlala ungatshatanga ixesha elide, sukungxama ekufumaneni uthando lobomi bakho, kwaye xa ungalindelanga, uya kuvela ... siza kukuxelela!
Ukuba uthandana nomntu ongathandani naye, ngaba licebo elihle ukuhamba kancinci okanye kungcono ukukhawulezisa izinto ukugcina iintlantsi zothando?
Sikubonisa izikhokelo zokufunda ukubonisa ukhuseleko kwabanye imihla ngemihla. Inkqubo enzima kodwa eluncedo kakhulu.
Mhlawumbi ufuna nje izizathu ezimbalwa (okanye izizathu) ukonwabela ukuphulula amalungu esini ebomini bakho ... Sikunika ezimbalwa ukuba uziqwalasele nzulu ...
Ukuba uneqabane kwaye ufuna ubudlelwane bakho bomelele phakathi kwakho, kuya kufuneka ukhululeke kumacala omabini obuhlobo ... ngoba?
Fumanisa ezinye iindlela ezilula kunye neengcebiso zokufunda ukuphumla yonke imihla, ukuthintela uxinzelelo olunokuthi lusichaphazele.
Ukuba unayo indoda ebomini bakho kwaye ufuna ukuba agcine umdla kuwe, fumana ezi ngcebiso ukuze ufumane! Kwaye ukuba awuyigcini, ubomi buyaqhubeka!
Kukho iingxaki emtshatweni eziqheleke kakhulu kodwa ukuba ziyaziwa zinokusonjululwa ngcono. Ngaba uyazi ukuba ngawaphi?
Kubudlelwane, ngaba kunyanzelekile ukuba wabelane ngesondo? Ukungabinabo kunokuphelisa ubudlelwane bakho? Sikuxelela okwenzekayo ...
Ukuba ubunobudlelwane ixesha elide kwaye uziva ukuba ixesha lesiphelo lifikile, yintoni omele uyikhumbule?
Fumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka njani ukuthatha umahluko wobudala kwesi sibini kwaye ufumane izinto eziqhelekileyo kubudlelwane ukuze uphumelele.
Ukuba intliziyo yakho yaphukile, ungaphoswa zezi zinto zintathu kufuneka uzikhumbule ukuze wonwabe kwaye uqhubeke.
Ukuba ubukhe wahlala kubudlelwane obunetyhefu, ukuba iyaphela uyakuqonda izinto ezininzi ... Phakathi kwazo, ezo siza kukuxelela ngazo ngezantsi.
Ukuqala ubudlelwane obutsha kunokuba ngumceli mngeni kwaye woyike ngokuqinisekileyo… Uqhele ukungatshati nenkululeko…
Kubudlelwane obungahambi kakuhle kodwa apho kusekho uthando ... ngaba kufanelekile ukwahlukana nayo yonke into okanye ukuzama ukulungisa ukungavisisani?
Ngamanye amaxesha kubudlelwane unokuba nezizathu ezahlukeneyo eziphelela kwiingxoxo zezemali, zeziphi eziqhelekileyo?
Fumanisa ukuba ungaboyisa njani ubudlelwane okanye intabatheko ngengcebiso esikunika yona ukuze ukwazi ukudlulisa le duel kwaye uqhubeke.
Ukuba kuya kufuneka ucwangcise umtshato kunye neqabane lakho kwaye kuvela iingxabano, endaweni yokulwa, kungcono ukuba ulandele ezi ngcebiso ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle.
Ngaba awazi ukuba ufumene ngaphezulu kokwahlukana ne ex yakho? Nazi iimpawu ezi-9 ezikuxelela ukuba i-ex yakho yinto yexesha elidlulileyo.
Izidingo zesondo zingahluka njengesibini, xa oku kusenzeka, yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuze ubudlelwane bungabi senkathazweni?
Ukuba ucwangcisa umtshato wakho neqabane lakho, ungaphoswa zezi mfihlelo ukuze ukwazi ukuzenza ngaphandle kwesidingo sokulwa ... Kuya kuba ngcono kakhulu!
Sikuxelela ukuba zeziphi izimo zengqondo ezenza ukuba kungabikho lula ukufumana iqabane kwaye kwenza kube nzima ukugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo.
Ukuba uyatshata kwaye woyika yonke imali oza kuyisebenzisa, ungaphoswa ngala maqhinga okonga imali yomtshato wakho kwaye ube nokuninzi ukulungiselela i-honeymoon!
Enkosi kubuchwephesha obutsha, ukudibana nesibini kwi-Intanethi kuya kuba lula kwaye kubelula… nje…
Ukuba iqabane lakho linendlela eyityhefu yokunxibelelana, qala uchonge ukuba unxibelelana njani ukuze wazi indlela yokumphatha ngokuchanekileyo kwincoko.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba luthando kodwa ubudlelwane onabo neqabane lakho buhlungu? Ke sukuzenza umntwana, kuba ukuba kubuhlungu, ayilothando.
Ukuba uthando lolwalamano lwesibini luyaphela ... Sukuzixakekisa ngalo mntu, ayikokwakho ... zininzi iintlanzi elwandle!
Ukuba ushiye nje neqabane lakho, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ngaphandle kwesidala sakho, ungaphila ngcono kwaye ufunde ukuba ubomi buxabiseke ngakumbi ...
Ukuba ufunda ukuzifumana, uya kuba nakho ukufumana ubudlelwane obunothando obunothando: kuqala nawe kwaye emva koko nabanye.
Ukuba ufuna ingxoxo yesibini iphele kakuhle, imfihlelo ingaphezulu kwako konke: thetha ngothando olusuka entliziyweni. Nantsi indlela yokuyifumana ...
Ukuze ukungangqinelani kwisibini kungapheli ukuchitha ubudlelwane, kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungagcina njani ulungelelwano kwingxoxo.
Fumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka njani ukuba ufunde ukunxibelelana nabanye ngezi ngcebiso ziphucula ubudlelwane kunye nabanye.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bunokuphucuka, unokufuna ukuzama ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho neyoga. Zama!
Fumana ukuba ungafunda njani ngaphandle kweziphazamiso kwaye usebenze ngokukuko. Ezi ngcebiso zinokukunceda ukuphucula ukusebenza kwakho kwizifundo zakho.
Ukuba ujongene noqhawulo-mtshato kwaye ubuxhomekeke kwiqabane lakho ngalo lonke ixesha, lifikile ixesha lokuba wazi indlela yokwenza.
Emva kokwahlukana okubuhlungu, unokuziva ngathi ubomi abunanjongo, kodwa enyanisweni, unokubuphucula ubomi bakho kwaye uqhubeke wonwabe!
Kukho amaxesha apho unokuphambanisa i-adventure nokuba usemathandweni, ke kubalulekile ukuba wazi indlela yokwahlulahlula ukuthintela umonakalo weemvakalelo ngokungeyomfuneko.
Sikuxelela iimfihlelo kunye neengcebiso zokuphucula ukuhlala kunye neqabane lakho, umzuzu obaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane.
Ngaba ungomnye wabo bahleba emnxebeni kwesi sibini ukuze babone ukuba bafumana "into"? Ezi zizathu ziya kukwenza uyeke ukuyenza ngakumbi ...
Ukuba iqabane lakho lisoloko likugxeka, kuyakufika ixesha apho ungasenakuthatha kwakhona ... ungajongana njani nale meko ngaphandle kokonakalisa ukuzithemba kwakho?
Sikuxelela ukuba ungayiphepha njani imithambo-luvo kunye noxinzelelo ngomhla wokuqala ngezinye iingcebiso ezilula kunye nemibono elungileyo.
Sikunika iingcebiso ezilungileyo ukuze ukwazi ukunxibelelana ngcono nabanye abantu, kuba le yinto esisiseko eluntwini.
Sikunika ezinye izimvo zokuphepha ukubandezeleka okungenamsebenzi kwengqondo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla obusibangela iingxaki ezininzi.
Sikunika imibono ukuze wazi ukuba ungamnceda njani umhlobo okwixesha elibi kwaye odinga ingcebiso yethu.
Fumanisa imikhwa enokukunceda woyise inqanaba loxinzelelo, into eqhelekileyo kwaye ekufuneka ilwelwe.
Sikuxelela indlela yokuseka imida kubudlelwane, inkqubo eyimfuneko ngokwenene ukuphucula obu budlelwane.
Sikuxelela ukuba kunokwenzeka njani ukuphucula uvelwano lwakho, icandelo elibalulekileyo kubukrelekrele beemvakalelo nakubudlelwane boluntu.
Sikunika iingcebiso ezimbalwa kunye nemibono yokoyisa uthando olunokubakho, into eyenzeka rhoqo.
Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bungene kwimonotony enkulu, lixesha lokuba uyitshintshe kwaye ubheje kwindlela entsha yesondo.
Sikunika izikhokelo zokufumanisa ukuba kutheni ungenathamsanqa kuthando, iimvakalelo ezinokukhokelela kwiimpazamo.
Sikuxelela izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zesigqibo sokusebenza okanye sokufundela ekhaya, into eyenziwayo rhoqo nangakumbi.
Sikubonisa ukuba ungazama njani ukoyisa ukungathembeki ukuba kuyenzeka, ukuze isibini esoyise le ngxaki.
Sikuxelela izibonelelo zengqondo ezinokuziswa yimidlalo yesiqhelo, into ekufuneka siyibandakanye kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.
Sikuxelela ukuba ziziphi izibonelelo zengqondo kunye nezibonelelo zokuhamba ezisinika zona kunye nokukwazi ukwazi ilizwe elijikelezileyo.
Ubudlelwane obude obude buhlala buxhaphaka ngenxa ye-Intanethi, kodwa kuhlala kukho ukungqubana esithetha ngako.
Sikunika izimvo zokufunda ukuzimela ngakumbi, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthintela ukuxhomekeka ngokweemvakalelo.
Sikunika iingcebiso ezimbalwa ukunqanda ukukruquka kunye nesiqhelo njengesiqabane, ingxaki enokuthi ikhokelele ekwahlukaneni.
Sikunika izikhokelo kunye neempawu zokwazi ukuba uyakuthanda na loo mntu ukhethekileyo, kuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubufumanise ngokuziphatha kwabo.
Sikunika ezinye zezitshixo kunye namaqhinga okufunda ukuthetha esidlangalaleni, into ekufuneka yenziwe ngumntu wonke ngamanye amaxesha ebomini babo.
Sikuxelela ukuba zeziphi izitshixo zokuba ngumhlobo olungileyo, into ebalulekileyo ukufezekisa ubuhlobo obuhlala buhleli nobunyanisekileyo ebomini.
Sikuxelela indlela itekhnoloji kunye neenethiwekhi zentlalo ezinokuthi zibuchaphazele kakubi ngayo ubudlelwane bethu.
Uxinzelelo luhambelana kakhulu nokwanda kwazo zonke iintlobo zezifo, ke kufuneka sizame ukukuphepha okanye ukusinciphisa.
Sikuxelela indlela yokoyisa ukwaliwa, kuba ebomini zininzi iimeko apho kuya kufuneka sijongane nale mvakalelo.
Sikuxelela ukuba yeyiphi indawo yokuthuthuzela kwaye sinokuphuma njani kuyo ukuze siphucule ubomi bethu ngombono omtsha.
Sikunika izikhokelo ukuze ukwazi ukubona ukuba bobuphi ubuhlobo obunempilo obuvela kubuhlobo obunetyhefu, ukuze sibe nolwalamano oluluncedo.
Ukungatshati nako kunokuba yinto elungileyo, inqanaba elitsha onokuzifumanisa kulo kwaye ufunde ukuzithanda ngakumbi.
Siyakuxelela ukuba kutheni ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuphumla kufuneka kube yinxalenye yemihla yethu, kuba zinezibonelelo ezininzi.
Sikuxelela onke amanyathelo ukuze ubenakho ukunika inkxaso kubantu abanexesha elibi okanye abanengxaki.
Sikuxelela amanye amanyathelo okuphucula ukuzithemba kunye nokuzithanda okusinceda ukuba siphumeze ulonwabo kunye nokuba sempilweni.
Sikuxelela izikhokelo ezithile ukuze ukwazi ukuphila ubomi bethu ngokupheleleyo yonke imihla, ufuna ulonwabo kunye nokuzanelisa.
Siza kukunika ezinye izimvo kunye nezikhokelo zokubuyela kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla emva kweKrisimesi ngaphandle kokudimazeka okanye ukudimazeka.
Sikunika imibono nezikhokelo zokwenza izigqibo zoNyaka oMtsha ezinokuthi zizalisekiswe, ukuze kulo nyaka sizifezekise.
Sikuxelela ukuba ziziphi iimpawu zokwahlukana kwesi sibini, ukuze ukwazi ukubona olu hlobo lweengxaki kwaye uziphephe.
Fumanisa ezinye izitshixo zokuphepha ukungqubana kosapho ngexesha leKrisimesi, xa usapho luhlanganisana kwizidlo ezinkulu.
Ukuba noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kunokuba yinto eqhelekileyo, ngakumbi ngexesha leKrisimesi, ke kufuneka sifunde ukuzilawula.
Sikunika izitshixo ezibalulekileyo ukunqanda ingxaki kwesi sibini, kunye nezixhobo zokulwa nayo kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane.
Ingxaki yokungathembani kwesi sibini yinto ekufuneka iphathwe ngononophelo ngabo bobabini, ukuphucula unxibelelwano.
Sikuxelela ukuba zeziphi ezinye zeengxaki eziqhelekileyo kwizibini ezitshatileyo. Iimbambano ekufuneka zisonjululwe ukuphucula ubudlelwane.
Fumanisa ukuba buyintoni ubudlelwane bomhlobo kwaye ungonwabela njani ngakumbi ngezi ngcebiso, ukunqanda umdlalo weqonga okanye ukungqubana nomnye umntu.
Sikuxelela indlela yokufunda ukonwaba kakhulu mihla le, ngokutshintsha okulula kwimikhwa kunye notshintsho kwisimo sakho.
Ixhala yingxaki echaphazela abantu abaninzi kwaye inento yokwenza noxinzelelo esinalo, ke kufuneka sifunde ukulwa nalo.
Ukwenza izigqibo kwisibini esitshatileyo kubaluleke kakhulu, ke kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo izinto ezininzi ezisibeka kwimeko.
Ukuthintela ukuqheleka kwesi sibini yinxalenye esisiseko yobudlelwane, kuba kunokudala ukuphazamiseka kwaye kude kuphele nokwahlukana.
Umntu oziphethe kakubi uya kuziphatha ngendlela ethile. Kubalulekile ukubaqaphela ukuze ubaphephe, kuba bangabantu abanetyhefu.
Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni ungonwabanga emsebenzini wakho, ke kuya kufuneka ucinge ngezizathu kunye nendlela yokutshintsha imeko.
Fumanisa izifundo ezintlanu umntu ngamnye anokuzifunda kwinja yakhe. Ukuba unesilwanyana sasekhaya uza kuba sele uyazi ukuba zeziphi izinto abasifundisa zona.
Fumanisa ezinye izitshixo zokuphulukana noloyiko kubudlelwane obutsha kunye nendlela ongaqala ngayo usempilweni kwaye ulungile.
Fumanisa ukuba umntu olusizi okanye odandathekileyo unokuncedwa njani ngala maxesha ngenkxaso nangengcebiso.
Ukuba nethemba ngakumbi yinto ekufuneka ifundwe yonke imihla, ukusebenza kancinci kancinci kwingqondo eyakhayo neyonwabisayo, eyoyisa iingxaki.
Sishiya ezinye zeengcebiso eziphambili zokunika inkxaso kubo bonke abo bakungqongileyo kwaye banesidingo. Uya kubona ezona ziphumo zibalaseleyo!
Ukuxolela ukungathembeki kuyintsokolo, ke kuya kufuneka sithathele ingqalelo izinto ezininzi xa sidlala.
Fumanisa indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye neqabane lakho phantsi kweentsika ezisisiseko ezijolise kunxibelelwano nakwimbeko.
Izibonelelo zokuphepha iinethiwekhi zentlalo kwixesha langoku. Ezi nethiwekhi zinokuzisa iingxaki ezininzi kunye nezinto ezingalunganga.
Ukukhetha iqabane lakho kakuhle ngumcimbi wokuziva, kodwa kunye nokubeka ulungelelwaniso ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
Ukufumana inkuthazo xa kufikwa ekufezekiseni iinjongo kubalulekile, kuba ngaphandle kwayo sihlala siphosa itawuli kwaye sincame.
Fumana ukuba zeziphi iintlobo zothando ezikhoyo. Inye nganye ichaza ubomi bethu kwaye igqibezela isimilo sethu.
Fumanisa ukuba ungawonyusa njani umnqweno wesini, enkosi kuthotho lweengcebiso kunye namayeza endalo. Vuselela ubudlelwane bakho!
Fumana ukuba ungafunda njani ukuphepha umona. Nangona kuvakala kunzima, sikushiya amanyathelo aphambili ekufuneka uwaqwalasele.
Ukwamkela ukugxekwa kunokuba lula kunokuba ucinga. Kufuneka ulandele nje amanyathelo ambalwa kwaye uya kuwufezekisa.
Ukuba ufuna ukufumanisa ixoki elinyanzelekileyo, apha siza kukushiya zonke izitshixo zeli ngxaki okanye likhoboka lokuxoka. Fumana konke malunga neentsomi.
Ukuba ukhe wazibuza ukuba luyintoni na unyango lwezibini, kuyacaca ukuba ukusukela namhlanje kuya kucaca ngakumbi. Ukongeza kwiintsingiselo zonyango, uya kuzazi iindawo ekubhalwe ngazo kunye nexesha lokulandela.
Sityhila oyena nobangela apho impilo yesini isibini sinokuthi buthathaka. Zininzi kwaye, mhlawumbi, ezinye zazo sele uzazi. Ke lixesha lokuzama ukufumana isisombululo kuninzi lwabo. Ngaba zikho ezivakala ziqhelekile kuwe?
Uxinzelelo sisinye sezifo ezinzima kakhulu. Namhlanje sikhanyisa ukukhanya kobo bumnyama, sisebenzisa uthotho lwezitshixo neengcali ezikwasicebisayo. Uya kubona ukuba ulawula njani ukuthatha inyathelo eliya phambili!
Funda ukuqaphela amaqabane anetyhefu, abo bangakhokeleli ubudlelwane babo ngendlela esempilweni kwaye basombulule ukungavisisani ngendlela engeyiyo.
Izibini ezihlala ixesha elide nezonwabileyo zinemikhwa eyenza ezi ntlobo zobudlelwane ziphumelele ekuhambeni kwexesha, xa kuthelekiswa nezinye ezingaphumeleliyo ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Ukungathembeki kukhule kule minyaka idlulileyo. Idatha eyothusayo kwaye ekufuneka sihlalutye ukuba zeziphi izizathu kunye nezitshixo zokwazi ukuba iqabane lakho liyakukhohlisa. Into elungileyo kukuba uphume ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo ngemizekelo kunye nemibuzo efana nale sikubonisa yona namhlanje.
Sidlala nodoli wethu ohlekisayo wosana oluphila olusifundisa ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo kwaye siyakhala ngokwenene! Sukuphoswa yiyo!
Ihlabathi ukuthandana online kulinga kakhulu, kodwa siba semngciphekweni ukudinwa okanye ukuba namava ezimbi, ngoko ke kufuneka silandele ezinye iingcebiso.
Xa siphikisana, nokuba sikunye neqabane lethu okanye akunjalo, kuhlala kukho ixesha apho siphulukana nolawulo lwempikiswano yethu. Kodwa ukuphikisana akufuneki kube yinto elawulwa kukukhwaza kodwa kunokuba ibe lixesha lokuba sikwazi ukwabelana ngeengcinga kunye neenkxalabo ezijikeleze iintloko zethu.
Iziphumo zoxinzelelo oluqhubekayo olunazo kwimpilo yethu zahlukile kakhulu kwaye zinokujika zibe ziingxaki ezinkulu, ke kufuneka sazi ukuba sazi njani xa zisichaphazela ngokugqithileyo.
Kuba zonke izibini zinokuhamba ngamaxesha aphezulu kunye nezinye, ezingekho kangako. Iingxaki zonxibelelwano kwisibini yinto esidlula kuyo sonke. Ke ngoku lixesha lokuba babaphelise ukuze babe nobudlelwane obungcono kakhulu.
Lixesha lokuba uqaphele iimpawu ezikuxelela ukuba unabahlobo abanetyhefu ukuze ubasuse ebomini bakho kwaye wonwabele ubuhlobo bokwenyani.
Izifundo ziyaqinisekisa ukuba izibini ezonwabileyo ngabo balandela imigaqo ethile yonke imihla. Ukuba awukayazi le nto sithetha ngayo, namhlanje siza kukuxelela ngayo. Ngendlela yokuba wena neqabane lakho nibe nakho ukubenza ukuba bonwabe njengaye wonke umntu.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi indlela yokoyisa ukungathembeki, sikushiya namanyathelo asisiseko ekufuneka uwalandele. Lixesha elinzima lelo ekufuneka sijongane nalo ukuze siqhubeke ngobomi bethu nendlela yethu.
Ukoyisa ukwahlukana yinkqubo enzima, ke sikunika izitshixo zokuqhubela phambili kula maxesha anzima.
Xa sinokuzithemba okuphantsi, kuyakusenza ukuba sibone yonke into engalunganga ngathi nangehlabathi elisingqongileyo. Ke namhlanje, siza kuyisebenza yonke ukuyitshintsha ngendlela elungileyo. Ukuzivocavoca kunye neengcebiso zokuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho ongafanele ukuba uziphose.
Ukuba wedwa yinto engathethi ukuba siziva sisodwa. Ukuba wedwa kuya kusinceda sazane kwaye senze ubudlelwane obunempilo nabanye.
Kuba isibini ngasinye lihlabathi. Kodwa elowo kubo kufuneka iingcebiso zomtshato ukuphucula okanye ukomeleza ubudlelwane. Indlela egqibeleleyo yokulungisa iimpazamo ezithile eziza kusenza ngcono thina kunye naloo mntu sinaye.
Ukuba uneqabane, ngaba ucinga ukuba lixesha lokuba umazise kusapho lwakho? Fumanisa le miqondiso ikuxelela ukuba akufuneki ulinde ixesha elide.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba uneentshaba okanye umntu othile ukuthiyile kwaye akabonakali emhle kuwe, fumana ukuba ungazenza njani iintshaba zakho zikuthande.
Kwinqaku lethu namhlanje sixelela indlela esihlala sibuchaphazela ngayo ubomi bethu kwaye sichaza zombini izibonelelo kunye nezinto ezingalunganga.
Iiyure nje ezimbalwa ngaphambi koSuku lweValentina, ukuba awukacingi ngesicwangciso sokonwaba kunye neqabane lakho, ungaphoswa yile mibono ukuyenza ibe lusuku olukhethekileyo.
Ukuba ufunda ukuqonda iipateni zakho zeemvakalelo, unokulindela ukuba yeyiphi iminyhadala ekwenza uzive ungcono okanye umbi kwaye ke usebenze ukuze uzive ulungile.
Namhlanje sikuzisa emlonyeni wombhali uJorge Luis Borges, indlela yokwahlula phakathi kobuhlobo nothando. Ukuba okwangoku unale ngxaki, funda apha.
Ezi zizinto ezisi-7 ekufuneka uthule ngokwenkcubeko yamaHindu. Zonke iinkcubeko zibonelela ngento yokufunda, kuba inkcubeko yamaHindu ibingazukuncipha.
Ebomini kuya kufuneka ujongane neenyaniso ezithile ukuze womelele yonke imihla. Namhlanje sikuxelela ukuba zeziphi ezo zinto kwaye singazoyisa njani yonke imihla.
Kungenzeka ukuba yonke imihla kukho abantu kwindawo yakho abaphula imida yakho kwaye bakwenza uzive ungonwabanga ...
Ukuba ungomnye wabantu abangenalo ixesha elininzi lokuthenga izipho zikaValentine, fumana ezi zimvo zintathu zomzuzu wokugqibela.
Kwinqaku lethu leengqondo namhlanje, siyangqina indima yabasetyhini kuluntu lwanamhlanje: Imiyalezo yabasetyhini abomeleleyo.
Ukuba uthando luye lwakukhathaza kwixa elidlulileyo, akufuneki ulibale ngalo ngonaphakade. Fumanisa ukuba ungathandana njani kwaye uluqonde uthando.
Ukuba udibana nendoda kwaye uneentloni, ngekhe uyazi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni engqondweni yakhe ... fumana ngezi zitshixo.
Kwinqaku lethu le-Psychology namhlanje, sikunika izitshixo ezi-5 zokuqala unyaka ngeenyawo zasekunene. Hi ndlela leyi, unyaka omtsha wonwabile kubo bonke abafundi bethu!
Qho ngonyaka silungiselela ukuqala inqanaba elitsha, ke siyakuxelela ukuba ujongane njani nezigqibo zoNyaka oMtsha ukuze uziphumeze.
Kule nqaku kwezempilo nakwisayikholoji, sikulethela uthotho lweengcebiso ngokuchasene noxinzelelo lomsebenzi, ngakumbi iingcebiso ezi-6.
Kwinqaku lanamhlanje lesayikholoji sikunika uthotho lwamacebo ngendlela esinokusikhuthaza ngayo ukuba siphumeze oko besizimisele ukukwenza.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba yintoni umgaqo we-90/10 kwisayikholoji? Awunakukhetha okwenzekayo kuwe, kodwa ungakhetha ukuba usabela njani kuyo.
Inqaku lanamhlanje le-Psychology sithetha ngokuphila ubomi ngokusemandleni akho ... Landela ezi ngcebiso kunye neengcebiso zokwenza njalo.
Kwinqaku leengqondo lanamhlanje sithetha konke malunga nokudakumba: Oonobangela, iziphumo kunye neengcebiso. Sisifo esingafanele sithathwe kancinci.
Sikuxelela konke malunga nentsasa emva kwepilisi. Kufuneka uyithathe nini? Ngaba unayo Izimo? Ngaba ikhuselekile njengendlela yokuthintela ukukhulelwa? Fumanisa.
Kwinqaku leengqondo lanamhlanje sikulethela iikowuti ezivela kuCarl Jung ngokukhula kwakho. Kucetyiswa kakhulu ukuba uzifunde!
Kwinqaku leengqondo lanamhlanje sikuxelela ukuba ukuhlala wedwa akufuneki kube kubi, ngokuchaseneyo. Lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuzifumanisa.
Kwinqaku lanamhlanje lePsychology siza kukuxelela ukuba yeyiphi imikhwa ekwenza ube lusizi mihla le. Zazi kwaye uthathe amanyathelo okuzitshintsha.
Kwinqaku lethu leengqondo namhlanje, sikuxelela indlela yokuvusa ukucinga okuhle. Landela ezi ngcebiso kunye nezikhokelo kwaye ufezekise iinjongo kunye namaphupha akho.
Namhlanje sikunika isigqibo sokulwa nobukrakra nguRafael Santandreu. Amanqaku ali-10 anokukwenza ukuba "ungoyiki" zizinto ezincinanana ezenzeka kuthi yonke imihla.
Ungalahli iinkcukacha zeempawu eziphambili ze-cybophobia okanye uloyiko lokutya kunye neziphumo ezinazo kwimpilo.
Ngaba ulibele ukuthatha iipilisi zokulawula inzala? Landela ezi ngcebiso ngokukhawuleza kwaye uphephe iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo ezingabeka impilo yakho emngciphekweni.
Nika ingqalelo kwezi ngcebiso zi-5 ziya kukunceda uqinise ubudlelwane phakathi kwakho nabantwana bakho.
Ungayisombulula njani ilahleko yesini. Oonobangela kunye nezisombululo zomtsalane ekubuyeni kwesi sibini. Ungenza ntoni xa umfazi wam engandifuni?
Ngaba uziva ungalunganga emva kokuba ne-orgasm kunye neqabane lakho? Ngaba uyafuna ukulila emva kokwenza uthando? Fumanisa ukuba yintoni le nto ivakalelwa kukuba
Qaphela kakuhle ukuba ziziphi izigaba zokuguga kunye nomehluko phakathi kwazo zonke.
I-Agoraphobia yenye yezona phobias zixhaphakileyo eluntwini kwaye inoloyiko olungenangqondo lweendawo ezivulekileyo nezoluntu.
Sikuxelela indlela yokujamelana nokuphulukana nomntu omthandayo: onke amanqanaba esidlula kuwo xa siphulukene nomntu kunye nento ekufuneka siyenze ukujongana nayo.
Ukuba ungumntu olusizi, ungaphoswa luthotho lweengcebiso eziza kukunceda wonwabe ngakumbi mihla le.
Ukusetyenziswa kwepilisi yothintelo kukhulelwa kuneentsomi ezininzi ekufuneka zisonjululwe. Cacisa onke amathandabuzo akho malunga nokusetyenziswa kwepilisi yokuthintela ukukhulelwa kunye neengozi zayo
Nika ingqalelo kwezona ngxaki zixhaphakileyo neziqhelekileyo ngokwesini kuluntu lwanamhlanje kwaye yeyiphi eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubaphatha.
Kwinqaku lanamhlanje lePsychology sichaza kwaye sicacisa umzekeliso omhle wamaBuddha ukuze sonwabe. Ukungahoyi ngundoqo.
Nika ingqalelo kwaye ungalahli iinkcukacha kwiiyantlukwano ezicacileyo ezikhoyo phakathi kwesifo sengqondo kunye nesifo sengqondo.
Nika ingqalelo kwiindidi ze-autism ezikhoyo ukuze wazi indlela yokwahlula nganye nganye kwaye wazi neempawu zazo.
Kule nqaku, sibona indlela iimpawu zeemvakalelo ezichaphazela ngayo impilo yethu, ngamanye amaxesha zikhokelela kwiimpawu ezinzulu zentliziyo kunye nokuphefumla.
Thatha inqaku elifanelekileyo lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuxhaphakileyo kulutsha namhlanje.
Ukuba iqabane lakho linemvakalelo eguqukayo, kuya kufuneka uqale ucinge malunga nokuba wenze ntoni ukwenza ubudlelwane busebenze phakathi kwakho.
Kungenzeka ukuba uqale ubudlelwane obuhle kakhulu kunye neqabane lakho, kodwa mhlawumbi ukubonisa iimpawu zokuba ufuna ukukushiya.
Ngaba unomdla kwihlabathi lamaphupha? Namhlanje sikwazisa ngamaphupha amabi aqhelekileyo kunye notoliko olwenziwe ngamnye kubo.
Inqaku lanamhlanje le-Psychology siza kukunika uthotho lweengcebiso kunye nezikhokelo zokuvusa ukucinga okuhle. Ngaba unesibindi sokuzenza?
Kukho izinto ezinokubutshabalalisa ubudlelwane bakho nawe phantse ungakhange uzibone. Ukuba awufuni ukuba le yenzeke, fumana ngoku.
Incoko yangaphakathi kunye nolwimi olisebenzisayo ukuthetha nawe kubaluleke kakhulu kwimeko yakho yeemvakalelo. Fumanisa enye engakuvumeliyo ukuba uqhubele phambili
Ulwimi lwangaphakathi lolona lunamandla kuzo zonke. Lulwimi esizichaza ngalo, ngalo ...
Kweli nqaku kwiPsychology sichaza ukungahambi kakuhle phakathi kwabantu namhlanje: uxinzelelo.
Mhlawumbi sele ulufumene ubizo lwakho kunye nenjongo ebomini kodwa awukayiqondi loo nto. Fumanisa ezinye zeempawu ezenza kucace kuwe.
Kwinqaku lanamhlanje lesayikholoji sikuxelela ukuba ngamanqanaba awoyiso loloyiko lwengqondo anokuhlulwa. Ukuba uyafuna, ungoyisa.
Ngaba unayo udliwanondlebe lomsebenzi kwaye ufuna ukufumana ukhuseleko? Sikuzisa iingcebiso ezilula ukuze ufunde ukusebenza ngokuzithemba.
Umsindo ungaluchitha ulwalamano lwakho okanye nabuphi na obunye ubudlelwane. Fumana indlela yomsindo yokutshabalalisa yonke into ejikeleze wena.
Ukuba ufuna ukufumana ibhalansi embindini woxinzelelo kwaye uzive ungcono ngokwasemphefumlweni, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba imfihlo ikwixesha lakho.
Le yimikhwa emi-5 yemihla ngemihla eyehlisa imvakalelo yakho. Nguwe kuphela onamandla okutshintsha kwaye ubanqande ... Ulinde ntoni?
Ngaba ucinga ukuba unokuba yinxalenye yobudlelwane obunetyhefu apho ulawulwa liqabane lakho? Le yeyona miqondiso iqhelekileyo.
Inqaku lanamhlanje lePsychology sikunika ingcebiso: zinyanzele ukuba ubenosuku oluhle kwaye akukho nto kwaye akukho mntu unokukunceda. Zijikeleze nabantu abanethemba.
Ngaba umntwana wakho uneZakhono eziPhakamileyo kwaye ufumanisa ukuba ulahlekile? Apha unokufumana ulwazi oluyimfuneko ukukhuthaza amandla apheleleyo.
Ungaphoswa zibonelelo ezinkulu zesini. Esi senzo siya kusinceda sizive ngcono, kunye nokukhathalela imizimba yethu.
Kwinqaku lanamhlanje kwiPsychology sikuxelela ukuba zeziphi izigaba ezi-4 zentlungu emva kokwahlukana kwezothando. Khumbula: Akukho mntu ufela uthando.
Kwinqaku esilinikezela namhlanje kwizengqondo siza kuthetha nawe malunga nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuqhelekileyo: uxinzelelo kunye nonyango lwayo.
Ukuba uneenjongo, ukuba unamaphupha, ukuba unethemba, fezekisa iinjongo zakho yonke imihla ngesi sikhokelo silula sisebenzayo sikunikeza namhlanje.
Xa ubudlelwane bothando bungaphindiseli, kuyadinisa ngokwasemphefumlweni, kodwa ungazama ukonga ukuba kusekho uthando.
Kwinqaku lanamhlanje le-Psychology kunye ne-Couple sikuxelela ngendlela yokugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo kunye neqabane lethu. Ukudibana sisitshixo.
Ukungaqondani okuncinci okushiywe kunganyangwa kunokujika kube yingxaki enkulu, ukunqanda oku kungenzeki, kungcono ukuba wazi iindlela ezikrelekrele zokukulungisa.
Inqaku lanamhlanje kwiPsychology lijongana nabo bantu okanye iimeko ezinganyamezelekiyo, eziba amandla ethu yonke imihla.
Unokububona ngeso lengqondo ubomi bakho obulungileyo kwaye ubuphumeze. Njani? Kule nqaku sikunika isitshixo sokufezekisa. Ingaba ulunde ntoni?
Kwinqaku lanamhlanje lesayikholoji sikunika uthotho lwezikhokelo zokuba uqaphele abo bantu banetyhefu "beba amaphupha" kunye namandla.
Uyazi ukubaluleka kobukrelekrele bemvakalelo? Sikubonisa indlela ezisebenza ngayo iimvakalelo zakho kunye nolwalamano lwabo nengcinga.
Ngaba usuku lwakho lokuqala lomsebenzi lusondele? Imithambo, uvuyo kunye nokungaqiniseki okuninzi! Ukuba ufuna ukuchitha olu suku kwinqaku eliphezulu, ezi ngcebiso zinomdla kuwe!
Kweli nqaku lezengqondo siphonononga ubume beemvakalelo kunye nedilesi, okanye ubuncinci ukuzama, ukuzithemba.
Ngaba uhamba neemeko zongquzulwano nomntwana wakho ofikisayo? Yazi ukubaluleka kothethathethwano kwaye ... kwenze!
Ubudlelwane ubudlelwane? Kunzima ewe, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uyazi ukuba zeziphi ezona ngxaki zixhaphakileyo, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukusombulula iingxaki!
Ukuba ufuna ukuzama ukugcina kwivenkile yeKrisimesi, fumana ezinye zeendlela zengqondo ezisetyenziselwa ukwenza ukuba uthenge ngaphezulu!
Funda malunga nayo yonke into enxulumene nehlabathi leengcinga zesondo kwaye uvumele ukuba uqhutyelwe lelona cala lakho loyilo kunye nothando. Unobuganga ...?
Ukuba uziva ungakhuthazeki ukuqala ubudlelwane obutsha, nokuba bubuhlobo okanye isibini, emva koko funda ku ... Uya kufumana inkuthazo.
Ukuba uhlala usilwa kwaye uphikisana neqabane lakho, lifikile ixesha lokuba ubeke ecaleni kwaye ufumane indlela yokuthetha izinto kakuhle.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntu uyakuthanda kodwa uzifihle kakhulu ... ungaphoswa yile miqondiso ukuze ubone ukuba uyakuthanda na.
Zininzi iindlela zokonwaba kwangoko kwaye ayinanto yakwenza nokwabelana ngezinto zamva nje kubuchwephesha obutsha. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi imfihlo?
Ukuba uneqabane kwaye unxiba iiglasi kunokuba nzima xa kuziwa ekuncamiseni okanye ekwabelaneni ngesondo. Ungasiphosi esi sikhokelo sokumanga ngeglasi.
Abahlobo bethu bubutyebi beemvakalelo kwaye olo sapho esizikhethele lona kwaye oluya kusivumela ukuba sibenobomi obonwabisayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha izibini zigqiba ukuthatha ikhefu, kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba zazi ukuba liliphi icebo elilungileyo kwaye xa kungenjalo kwaphela.
Ukuba uyathanda, khathalela, ukuba awuthandi, akukho mbono. Ukungathembeki sesona senzo sibuhlungu sinokuthi sihlupheke kubudlelwane bethu.
Khumbula, ukuba uthando luxinene, ayibobukhulu bakho. UKUBA kukuzisela usizi olungaphezulu kovuyo, oko akuyomilinganiselo yentliziyo yakho.
Ukuphathwa gadalala ngobuqhetseba: kuxhaphake kakhulu kunokuba sicinga, kwaye kusishiya nenxeba elingabonakaliyo nelingabonakaliyo. Siyakumema ukuba uphengulule ngalo mbandela.
Kukho amaxesha apho izigqibo zithathwa ngokungxama. Uninzi lwabasetyhini luye lwasilela kubudlelwane kwaye emva koko bacinga ...
Ukuba uthandana nomntu, ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ajike abe ulwalamano? Ungaphoswa ziimpawu ezithile.
Umfazi uyakonwabela ukuqiniseka ngokuphulula umzimba iimfihlo zakhe azaziyo kunye nokuqiniseka kwakhe okuphakanyisiweyo lelakhe.
Ukuba awazi nyani ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buphelile okanye akunjalo, funda ufunde kwaye ufumane le miqondiso isixhenxe eyenza icace gca.
Ukuba uthandana nendoda esacinga nge-ex yayo, mhlawumbi ucinga ngokumshiya, kodwa wenza njani ukuze ukhuseleke?
Uthando oluyinyani ludibaniso olufihlakeleyo lobugcisa, ukuphindaphinda, umsebenzi wemihla ngemihla kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, ukwazi ukhathalelo lweenkcukacha
Namhlanje e-Bezzia sibhiyozela uSuku loMama, ukusuka apha ukunikela imbeko kubo bonke abo bafazi banesibindi abasinike ubomi.
Namhlanje, umhla wama-23 ku-Epreli, kubhiyozelwa uSuku lweeNcwadi kwiHlabathi liphela. E-Bezzia sifuna ukwabelana nawe ngayo yonke into efundiswayo ifanekisela thina.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba iqabane lakho alinakufumaneka ngokwasemphefumlweni? Ungaphoswa yile miqondiso bakuxelela yona ukuba abafuni nto imbi kuwe.
Xa intliziyo igcina ukuphoxeka okuninzi, sihlala sivale iingcango zobomi kunye namathuba. Ayisiyonto ilungileyo ukuyenza.
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu kubaluleke kakhulu kubomi babantu, kodwa kufuneka wenze ntoni ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo nokuziphucula?
Ukuwola kunamandla anyangayo kwaye aphilisayo esingafanele ukwenza ngaphandle kwawo. Zingaphi iihagi osinike zona namhlanje?
Ngaba uyazithatha iipilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa kwaye isondo lakho lokuqhuba lihlile? Fumanisa ukuba iipilisi zolawulo lokuzalwa zinokuchaphazela ulwalamano lwakho.
Ukuhamba ze ngokweemvakalelo kuhamba ngaphaya kwesikhumba ukudibanisa abantu ababini kwiimfuno zabo, uloyiko lwabo kunye neminqweno yabo. Siyakumema ukuba ucamngce ngayo.
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