Ukuba ungumntu osoloko enexinzelelo kwaye uqaphela ukuba kuyaqala ukuchaphazela usapho lwakho, ngoku lixesha lokuba uthathe inyathelo. Abantwana bakho abafanelekanga ukuba bajongane noxinzelelo onalo yonke imihla. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba unokulungisa kwaye ube ngumzekelo olungileyo kulawulo loxinzelelo kubantwana bakho.
Yiba nesicwangciso
Yenza izicwangciso kwangaphambili zokujongana neemeko ezithile ezibangela uxinzelelo. Unokubandakanya umntwana wakho kwisicwangciso. Ukuba, umzekelo, uziva unexhala lokulungiselela umntwana wakho ukuba alale ngexesha elifanelekileyo, thetha naye malunga nendlela eninokusebenzisana ngayo ukusingatha olu tshintsho luxinzelelo kwikamva. Mhlawumbi unokuza nesicwangciso apho ndifumana khona amanqaku ukuze ndifumane ilungelo ngalo lonke ixesha udlula kwindlela yakho yasebusuku ngaphandle kokukhalaza ngexesha lakho lokulala.
Ezi zicwangciso kufuneka zisetyenziswe ngononophelo- akufuneki ubambe umntwana wakho ukuba abe noxanduva lokulawula uxinzelelo lwakho ukuba lungena kwiinkalo ezininzi zobomi bakho. Kodwa ukubukela ufezekisa isicwangciso sokunciphisa amaxesha athile oxinzelelo kukuvumela ukuba wazi. uxinzelelo lunokunyamezelwa kwaye lulawulwe.
Funda ukukhulula
Ukuba uyazi ukuba imeko ikubangela ukuba ube noxinzelelo olungafanelekanga, unokufuna ukucwangcisela kwangaphambili ukungabikho kuloo meko ukuze abantwana bakho bangakuthathi njengabazithembanga. Yitsho, umzekelo, Ukushiya abantwana esikolweni kukuzalisa ngexhala lokwahlukana.
Ekugqibeleni ufuna ukwazi ukuthatha umntwana wakho amse esikolweni, kodwa ukuba uselapha, ungacela umzali okanye umntu omdala ukuba anyamekele ukuhanjiswa. Awufuni ukumodela eli binzana ukhathazeke kakhulu ngokuzahlula kubantwana bakho kuba uya kulidlulisela kubantwana bakho ... Awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci acinge ukuba kukho into eyingozi ngokumyeka esikolweni.
Ngokubanzi, ukuba uziva ngathi uziva uxhalabile kukuxhalaba phambi komntwana wakho, zama ukuthatha ikhefu. Ukuba uqala ukuba noxinzelelo, yenza izinto ezikwenza uzive ungcono: thatha uhambo, sela iti, hlamba okanye uphume ngomnyango ukonwabele umoya. Yithemba ukuba uxinzelelo luza kudlula.
Yiba nenkqubo yenkxaso
Ukuzama ukuba ngumzali ngelixa usangana nempilo yakho yengqondo kunokuba ngumceli mngeni, kodwa akufuneki uyenze wedwa. Thembela ebantwini ebomini bakho abaza kungenelela xa uziva ukhathazekile, okanye nokuba unikezela ngamagama enkxaso. Aba bantu banokuba ngoochwephesha, abazali, iqabane lakho okanye abahlobo.
Unokufuna inkxaso kwiiblogi, iiforamu ze-Intanethi, nakumajelo asekuhlaleni. Fumana indawo apho uziva ukhululekile khona kwaye uyakuqonda ukuba awuwedwa. Baninzi abanye abantu abakhoyo nabaziva ngathi nguwe, kungumbono olungileyo ukuba wabelane ngamava akho kwaye uzivumele ukhulise ulwazi lwakho namava abanye abantu. Ubomi bentsapho yakho buya kuphucuka kakhulu xa usazi ukuba ungalulawula uxinzelelo lwakho!