Ukwenza itheko abantu abaya kulikhumbula kwiminyaka ezayo ayingomcimbi wethamsanqa.Akunjalo malunga nokwazi ukudibanisa ukucwangcisa, ukuyila, kunye nencinci ye-savvy yombutho. Nokuba litheko lokuzalwa ekhaya, umnyhadala wasekhaya ezilalini, okanye ubusuku obuyindumasi kwiklabhu yasebusuku yaseMadrid, ukuba uphucula yonke into ngomzuzu wokugqibela, kukho into enokuthi ihambe kakubi.
Esi sikhokelo sokubhiyozela iiholide sidibanisa ezona ndlela zibalaseleyo ezahlukeneyoUkusuka kwindlela yokucwangcisa kakuhle, itheko lemveli ukuya kwiimbono ezinomdla kwimihla yokuzalwa yabantu abadala, iingcebiso zeminyhadala yendawo, kunye neengcebiso zokwenza umbhiyozo womhla wokuzalwa ekhaya ube ngamava amnandi ngokwenene. Injongo kukukunika imephu yendlela ecacileyo, kodwa enendawo yokwenza umnyhadala wakho ube ngowakho.
Yintoni eyenza itheko libe mnandi
Itheko eliphumelelayo linezithako ezithathu ezisisiseko: injongo, isakhiwo, kunye nomoya.Intsingiselo, kuba kufuneka kubekho into ethile yokubhiyozela (umhla wokuzalwa, isithethe sasekhaya, unyuso, indibano yabahlobo…) kwaye yonke into kufuneka ijikeleze eso sizathu. Isakhiwo, kuba luncedo ukuchaza izigaba: ukufika, ukutya okanye i-snacks, isiganeko esiphambili, kunye nokuvalwa. Kwaye umoya, kuba umculo, ukukhanya, imihlobiso, kunye namandla eendwendwe zizinto eziguqula umcimbi ohloniphekileyo ube ngumbhiyozo ongalibalekiyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba udibane neebhaluni, uluhlu lokudlala kunye yenza i-photo booth eyonwabisayoKufanelekile ukuthatha ixesha lokujonga indlela ofuna ukuba iqela libe namava ngayo.Nokuba isesikweni kakhulu okanye ingekho sikweni, ijolise kusapho okanye isebusuku, isondelelene okanye inkulu. Lo "mfanekiso wengqondo" uya kusebenza njengekhampasi yakho kuzo zonke izigqibo ezilandelayo: indawo, ixesha, uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, uhlobo lokutya, imisebenzi kunye nesimbo sokuhombisa.
Amanyathelo angundoqo okulungelelanisa naliphi na iqela
Inyathelo lokuqala, nelidla ngokungaxatyiswa kakhulu, kukuchaza uhlobo lwepati oza kuba nalo kwaye lijoliswe kubani.Ayifani nokulungiselela urhatya oluzolileyo lokubhiyozela umsebenzi omtsha njengoko kukuququzelela umnyhadala omkhulu wedolophu kunye neekonsathi, kwaye akufani nokulungiselela usuku lokuzalwa lwe-18 njenge-50. Cacisa malunga nokuba i-protagonist ngumntu othile, ingcwele, umhla okhethekileyo, okanye nje iqela labahlobo abafuna ukuhlangana.
Icandelo lesibini eliphambili ngumhla kunye nexeshaMusa ukucinga nje xa kukufanele; jonga iiholide, ikhefu lesikolo, iimpelaveki ezinde, nezinye iziganeko ezibalulekileyo kwindawo ohlala kuyo ezinokunciphisa inani labantu abezayo. Khetha ixesha lokuqala kunye nexesha lokuphela kovavanyo ukuze abantu balungelelanise ezothutho, abantwana, kusasa ngentsasa elandelayo, kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, indawo yokuhlala.
I-axis yesithathu emisela yonke into yibhajethi.Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka ubeke uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali olupheleleyo kwaye emva koko ulwahlule ngokwamacandelo: indawo (irenti okanye ukuseta), ukutya, iziselo, imihombiso, ukuzonwabisa (i-DJ, ibhendi, imidlalo, iindibano zocweyo), abasebenzi benkxaso, kunye nonxibelelwano (izimemo, iipowusta, amatikiti, njl. njl.). Ukwazi ukuba yimalini onokuyichitha kuya kukunceda ukuba ubeke phambili kwaye wenze isigqibo sokuba ungagxila phi kwimizamo yakho.
Ukukhetha indawo kubeka ubuntu bepatiIsenokuba yindlu yakho, igadi, iziko loluntu ekuhlaleni, indawo yelizwe, iklabhu yasebusuku, iterrace ephezu kophahla, indawo yokugcina impahla eguquliweyo, okanye igumbi lemisebenzi emininzi. Qwalasela inani labantu, ukufikeleleka, imozulu enokwenzeka ngelo xesha lonyaka, nokuba ufuna iqonga, ibha, ikhitshi, amagumbi okunxiba, okanye iindawo ezahlukileyo, kwaye ubhukishe iinyanga ezininzi kwangaphambili ukuba yindawo edumileyo.
Ucinga ngendawo, lixesha lokuba wenze uluhlu lweendwendweKumaqela amancinane, iqela elincinane, elinobuhlobo lanele; kwimibhiyozo emikhulu (imithendeleko yendawo, imikhosi, izidlo ezinkulu), kuyacetyiswa ukuba isahlulo ngabaphulaphuli: iintsapho ezinabantwana, abantu abatsha, abantu abadala, njl. Izimemo kufuneka zichaze ngokucacileyo indawo, umhla, ikhowudi yokugqoka (ukuba ikhona), nokuba ngaba abakho bayacelwa ukuba bazise nantoni na, kunye nomhla wokugqibela we-RSVP.
Khetha umxholo, ukutya, iziselo, kunye nemihombiso
Ukuseka umxholo, nokuba ulula, kunceda kakhulu ukunika ukuhambelana kunye nobuntu kwisiganeko.Ukusuka kumaqela anemixholo enombala omnye okanye isimbo sokunxiba (isimbo esimhlophe se-Ibiza, ubuhle be-1920s, i-hippie yee-1970) ukuya kwimbeko kuthotho lweTV, ibhendi, ishumi leminyaka, okanye umntu wokuzalwa ngokwakhe. Kwimithendeleko yendawo, intambo eqhelekileyo idla ngokuba yinkolo okanye isithethe esithandwayo, esinokuqiniswa ngemisebenzi ethile kunye nemihlobiso.
Ukutya nokusela yenye yeembombo zawo nawuphi na umbhiyozoUnokukhetha isidlo sokuhlala ngokusesikweni, ipati yokuma ye-cocktail, i-buffet-style spread, okanye into ephakathi. Gcina ukhumbula i-allergies, ukunganyamezeli, kunye nezinto ozikhethayo (imifuno, i-vegan, okanye i-gluten-free options ziyafumaneka) ngoko wonke umntu unokhetho oluthile. Kwiminyhadala yosapho neyendawo, iipotlucks, iipaellas ezinkulu, iibarbecues, okanye ii-tapas bars zisebenza kakuhle kakhulu.
Ngokuphathelele iziselo, iqhinga kukubonelela ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo ngaphandle kokugqithisa izinto.Amanzi, iziselo ezithambileyo, ijusi yabantwana abancinci, ibhiya, iwayini, kwaye, ukuba itheko liyayibiza, imimoya ethile, ihlala ihanjiswa ngokufanelekileyo. Kwiziganeko zasebusuku ezifana nee-nightclub, ulawulo olulungileyo lwebha kunye nenkqubo yokuhlawula ecacileyo (iziselo, amathikithi, ii-wristbands ezingenayo imali, njl. njl.) yenza intlangano ibe lula kakhulu.
Umhlobiso yinxalenye apho ubuchule bubonakala kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yimali.Itafile entle okanye itafile ekhethwe kakuhle, umhombiso ngeebhaluniIigarlands, amakhandlela, iipropu zeefoto, iibhena ezinemiyalezo eyenzelwe wena, izibane ezishushu okanye ezinemibala, izinto eziphambili... Yonke into iyongeza. Ebudeni bemibhiyozo yasekuhlaleni, ucelomngeni kukuhombisa izikwere, izitrato namaqonga ngoxa ugcina isiseko sesithethe kodwa unikela umzobo wale mihla.
Ekugqibeleni, musa ukulibala isandi kunye nokusingqongileyo okubonakalayoUmculo kunye nokukhanya kubalulekile ekudaleni umoya ofanelekileyo wepati yakho. Ungalungiselela uluhlu lokudlalwayo oluninzi (oluphumle ngakumbi lokufika kunye nokutya, olonyuselo ngakumbi lokudanisa) okanye uqeshe ii-DJs, iibhendi, iiokhestra, okanye amaqela omculo abantwana kwiminyhadala yasekhaya. Dlala ngezibane, imichilo ye-LED, izibane zecarnival, okanye ibhola ye-disco ukuguqula nayiphi na indawo.
Indlela yokucwangcisa izigaba zomnyhadala wesintu
Imibhiyozo emininzi ilandela iskimu esinezigaba zakudala ekufuneka sicace kakhulu kuwe.Isiganeko esiphambili siya kuqala ngeendwendwe ezifikayo, kulandelwa isidlo okanye i-snacks, emva koko isenzo esisembindini (ikhekhe, intetho, umcimbi, umboniso, njl.), Kwaye ekugqibeleni inxalenye ekhululekile ngokudansa, imidlalo, okanye ingxoxo engekho sesikweni. Ukulungelelanisa iqela ngokwasengqondweni kwezi zigaba kukuvumela ukuba wenze isigqibo sokuba zeziphi izixhobo oza kuzisebenzisa ngexesha ngalinye.
Inqanaba lokufika lidla ngokuqala ngendawo yolwamkeloNgokufanelekileyo, le ndawo kufuneka ibe kufuphi nomnyango, apho iindwendwe zinokuqokelela iidyasi, iibhegi kunye nezinye izinto. Ukusuka apho, khokela abantu kwindawo yokwamkela kunye nokutya, iziselo, kunye nefenitshala encinci ukukhuthaza wonke umntu ukuba axubane. Ukuba isiganeko sisegadini okanye indawo enkulu yangaphandle, unokuyahlula ibe yimimandla; ukuba isekhaya, yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle, kodwa usenako ukutyumba iindawo.
Emva kokuba abantu abaninzi befikile, iseshoni iqhubela phambili kwicandelo apho ukutya kungundoqo.Nokuba uhleli ecaleni kwetafile okanye kwifomathi yebuffet. Ukuba unesithuba esaneleyo, unokuseta iitafile ezininzi ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ushiye iipaseji ezikhululekile phakathi kwazo; ukuba indawo inqongophele, ifanitshala enye, ebekwe kakuhle, nefikeleleka lula isenokuba lolona khetho lufanelekileyo.
Isiganeko esiphambili yintliziyo yombhiyozoUkucima amakhandlela, ukusika ikhekhe, ukumanga kwesibini, ukunikezelwa komntwana, intetho yokubonga, umgca wengcwele, okanye umboniso weenkwenkwezi kumthendeleko wendawo-ngumzuzwana wonke umntu uya kukhumbula, kwaye ufanelwe ukuphuculwa ngokuchukumisa okukhethekileyo, ukusuka kumboniso okhanyayo ukuya kwi-confetti kunye neshawari ye-streamer.
Emva kwaloo ngqalelo yengqwalasela, iqela lingena kwisigaba esikhululekile. Ubude bexesha buya kuxhomekeka kuhlobo lomsitho kunye nexesha lemini: inokuhlala kude kube ziiyure zasekuseni ukuba yipati yasebusuku, okanye iphele kwangethuba ukuba yindibano yosapho. Kubalulekile ukuba iindwendwe zicace malunga nexesha elimisiweyo, ngakumbi ukuba isiganeko sinokudibana nesidlo sasemini okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa.
Izimvo zeminyhadala enomtsalane yabaxhasi bengcwele
Iminyhadala ye-Patron saint yiligi eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo: ifuna iinyanga zomsebenzi kunye nombono wenkqubo yehlabathi jikeleleAkwanelanga ukuhlanganisa nje imisitho; inkqubo ebanzi, eyahluka-hlukeneyo, nebandakanyayo kufuneka iyilwe ethathela ingqalelo abantwana, ulutsha, abantu abadala, kunye nabantu abadala. Ngaphaya koko, le mibhiyozo lithuba lokukhuthaza umasipala, ukutsala iindwendwe, kunye nokwenza ingeniso eyongezelelekileyo kumashishini asekuhlaleni, iindawo zokutyela kunye nababoneleli.
Isiko ngumphefumlo wawo nawuphi na umthendeleko ongcwele kwaye kufuneka ukhuliswe ngononophelo.Imingcelele, izihlwele, imijuxuzo yesintu, iikonsathi zomculo, izidlo zembutho, imiboniso yembali, nemidlalo ephindaphindwa unyaka nonyaka ziziseko ekwakhiwa phezu kwazo yonke enye into. Kubalulekile ukuyigcina le misitho, kwandiswe iindawo ezibanjelwe kuzo, nokuqinisekisa ukuba iyaqhubeka nokudlala indima ebalulekileyo kule nkqubo.
Ngexesha elifanayo, isitshixo kukuzalisekisa inxalenye yendabuko kunye nemisebenzi yokuthatha inxaxheba kuyo yonke iminyaka.Iindibano zocweyo zabantwana kunye nemiboniso, iinqaba ze-bouncy, oololiwe abancinci, ukuzingela ubutyebi, iintshatsheli zezemidlalo, iitumente zamakhadi okanye iidomino zabantu abadala, imidaniso yasemva kwemini, iiseshini ze-vermouth ezinomculo… Uluhlu luqinisekisa ukuba icandelo ngalinye loluntu lifumana umzuzu “wabo” kumnyhadala.
Ukuba nomculo kungumyalelo.Iiokhestra, amaqela asekuhlaleni, ii-DJs, ii-disco ezihambayo, kunye neekonsathi zeendlela ezahlukeneyo zinokusasazwa kwiintsuku ezininzi ukufikelela kubaphulaphuli abahlukeneyo. Abaculi bokubhuka, ukuseka izigaba, ukulawula ukufikelela kunye nokhuseleko, imivalo yokusebenza, kunye nokukhangisa umcimbi yimisebenzi efuna amava okanye inkxaso ye-arhente ekhethekileyo.
Xa uququzelela iminyhadala yeengcwele zabaxhasi abakhulu, kubalulekile ukuqikelela ulungiselelo.Iziseko zoncedo (iintente, iibhari, iitafile, izitulo, izindlu zangasese, ucingo), abasebenzi, amaphepha-mvume, i-inshorensi, izicwangciso zokufuduka, kunye nezicwangciso zokuhlehla xa imozulu imbi. Ukucwangcisa kakubi kunokonakalisa iinyanga zomgudu, ngelixa uyilo olwenziwe kakuhle lukhokelela kwindawo ekhululekile kwaye ekhuselekileyo kumntu wonke.
Isikhokelo sokubhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa kwiiklabhu zasebusuku kunye neendawo
Ukuba umbono wakho wombhiyozo olungileyo wokuzalwa ubandakanya ukudanisa de iinyawo zakho zibe buhlungu, ke le yeyakho.Ukuyilungiselela kwi-nightclub okanye indawo yepati sisicwangciso esimangalisayo. Izixeko ezifana neMadrid zibonelela ngeenketho zazo zonke izinto ezithandwayo: ukusuka kwiiklabhu eziphucukileyo ezineendawo zeVIP ukuya kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo kumbindi wesixeko, zilungele amaqela afuna ubusuku obunzulu ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
Kwezi ntlobo zamaqela, ukubhukisha kwangaphambili kunyanzelekile.Ngokukodwa ngeempelaveki okanye ngeeholide. Iindawo ezininzi zibonelela ngeepakethi zomhla wokuzalwa ezibandakanya ukungena, iibhotile, ukugcinwa kwetafile, ukujonga idyasi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunye nokuhombisa okusisiseko. Kubalulekile ukuchaza ngokucacileyo inani labazimasi, ixesha elimiselweyo, uhlobo lomculo olukhethayo, kwaye ukuba ufuna naziphi na ezongezelelekileyo njengendlu yeefoto okanye ikeyiki ekhethekileyo.
Ukubhiyozela "iminyaka ebalulekileyo" eyahlukeneyo kwi-nightclub nayo inesitayela sayoNgomhla wokuzalwa we-18th, abantu bajonge indawo ekhuselekileyo kodwa edlamkileyo, enoluhlu lokudlala olulolwakho kwaye mhlawumbi nendawo yeefoto. Kwi-30, abaninzi bakhetha amaqela anomxholo (i-retro, i-glam, ifilimu, njl.) kunye neendawo ezizimeleyo ezinobuqhetseba. Ukujika ama-40 okanye ama-50 kumema ukuba udibanise abahlobo abavela kumaxesha ahlukeneyo, udlale umculo osuka kumashumi eminyaka ahlukeneyo, kwaye, ukuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwakho luyakuvumela, nokuba ugcine indawo yeqela lakho kuphela.
Ukuze wonk’ ubani azonwabele, kufuneka sicinge ngababekho.: ukufikeleleka kwesiza, iindlela zokuthutha ezikufutshane, indawo yokupaka, inqanaba lengxolo elamkelekileyo kulabo abafuni ukusondela kwizithethi, iinketho ezingezizo ezinxilisayo, abasebenzi bokulawula umthamo kunye nokhuseleko ... Unxibelelwano oluhle kunye nendawo lunceda ukulungelelanisa isicwangciso kwisitayile seqela.
Ekugqibeleni, ichaza kakuhle kakhulu bhajethi Ukususela ekuqaleni, xubusha kunye nendawo ukuba iphakheji nganye ibandakanya ntoni, ukusetyenziswa okuncinci, ukuba amatikiti angaphezulu okanye ukucinywa komzuzu wokugqibela kusingathwa njani, nokuba umhlobiso luxanduva lwakho, kwaye ukuba iinkcukacha ezifana nebhari evulekileyo yeziselo ezithile zexesha elithile zingaxoxwa.
Iingcamango ezizodwa zokuzalwa kwabantu abadala kunye nobuntu
Kufika ixesha ebomini xa ukuphinda isicwangciso esifanayo "sesidlo sangokuhlwa + iziselo kunye nekhaya" siwela kufutshaneUkuba ufuna usuku lwakho lokuzalwa okanye usuku lokuzalwa lomntu okhethekileyo lube nokuchukumisa okwahlukileyo, kukho izinto ezininzi onokukhetha kuzo eziya ngaphaya kwesiqhelo: ayikokuchitha ngaphezulu, kodwa malunga nokwenza itheko libonise ubuntu bakho.
Itheko elinemixholo enobuntu lubhejo olukhuselekileyoEndaweni yokunxiba nje ngenxa yalo, khetha into ehambelana nawe: ibhendi yakho oyithandayo, ishumi leminyaka olithandayo, umboniso weTV owenze uluvo oluhlala luhleli, okanye umxholo wegeeky oqondwa kuphela liqela lakho. Unokongeza iinkcukacha ezifana nokutya okunomxholo, imihombiso ethile, ikhowudi yokunxiba, kunye nomculo ohambelanayo.
Ukubhiyozela kwindawo engalindelekanga kutshintsha ngokupheleleyo amava.Uphahla lwabucala olunemibono, iindawo zokuyila, iigalari zobugcisa, izindlu zokugcina izityalo, izindlu zewayini eziphantsi komhlaba, izindlu ezineegadi, izikhephe zamaqela… Kwizixeko ezikhulu, kukho inyambalala yeendawo ezingaveliyo kukhangelo lokuqala, kodwa ezishiya iindwendwe zinombono othi “Andiyibonanga le nto izayo” ebusweni babo. Ngaphezu kobukhulu, into ebalulekileyo kukuba indawo inomphefumlo.
Ukuguqula iqela libe yiworkshop okanye amava okwabelwana ngawo yenye ingcamango enamandlaIiklasi zokupheka kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa zibandakanyiwe, iiseshoni ze-cocktail, iindibano zocweyo zobumba okanye ukupeyinta ngewayini esandleni zenza abantu bathathe inxaxheba, bahleke kwaye bathathe ngaphezu kweefoto nje: baphinde bathathe amava aqhelekileyo adibanisa iqela kakhulu.
Ukuba uyathanda iiplani ezisebenzayo, ukuzingelwa komntu osedolophini kunokothusa.Amaqela aqulunqwa, imingeni engafanelekanga icetywayo, iimvavanyo zeefoto zenziwa, imiboniso emfutshane ye-impromptu inikezelwa, kwaye imikhondo ilandelwa kwisixeko ukufikelela kwindawo yokubhiyozela. Iyaguquguquka, iqhekeza umkhenkce, kwaye ijike itheko libe yinto yokuzonwabisa.
Kwabo bakhetha into esondeleyo ngakumbi, ipati "eyimfihlo" yesidlo sangokuhlwa okanye inkampu yabantu abadala kuphela nayo inomtsalane wabo.Unokuseta i-speakeasy kwikhaya lakho, kunye nemenyu ebalisa ibali lakho ngokusebenzisa izitya, okanye urente indlu yelizwe ukuze uhlaziye inkampu yasehlotyeni ngemidlalo, i-t-shirts eyenzelwe wena, umlo webhaluni yamanzi kunye nebhonfire yokugqibela ngamabali kunye nomculo ongathandekiyo.
Indlela yokubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa ekhaya kwaye wenze ukuba ukhumbule
Ukulungiselela itheko lokuzalwa ekhaya kunenzuzo enkulu: ulawula phantse yonke into kwaye ulondoloze intywenka yemali ekurentiseni indawo.Olo gcino lunokungena ngqo epokothweni yakho okanye lutyalwe ngokutsha ekuphuculeni ukutya, ukuqesha umntu olungiselela ukutya, ukuthenga izinto zokuhombisa ezipholileyo, okanye ukongeza into eyongezelelweyo njengo-DJ okanye ukonwabisa.
Indlu ikwakunika inkululeko yeshedyuli kunye nemisebenzi ongenayo kwezinye iindawo.Unokuseta ixesha lokuqala nelokuphela, ulungelelanise imidlalo, udlale umculo ongxolayo (ngelixa uhlonipha abamelwane, kunjalo), okanye wenze izinto ezingezizo ezingafanelekanga kwindawo yokutyela. Ungathumela iindwendwe zakho uhlobo "lweshedyuli yepati" ukuze izinto zihambe.
Ukuze ikhaya lisebenze njengendawo yepati, kubalulekile ukusasaza iindawo kakuhle kwaye shiya indlu ilungele iiholideNokuba awuhlali kwindlwana enkulu, luluvo oluhle lokudala iindawo ezinomsebenzi ocacileyo: indawo yokutyela nokusela, indawo yokudlala okanye yencoko, umgangatho wokudanisa, indawo yokufota, kwaye mhlawumbi i-terrace okanye ibalcony yomoya omtsha. Ukuhambisa ifanitshala ethile kunye nokugcina izinto ezibuthathaka kwangaphambili kunokukongela iingxaki ezininzi.
Ukukhetha umxholo wekhaya lakho akunyanzelekanga, kodwa kuyanceda ukwenza yonke into ihambelane.: Amaqela amhlophe e-Ibiza-style, "Hollywood stars" kunye ne-photocall kunye namabhaso amnandi, i-hippie party eneerekhodi ze-vinyl, iintyatyambo kunye nomculo we-disco, okanye imixholo yabantwana efana ne-superheroes, i-circus, i-pirates okanye imidlalo, ngokokuthanda kwe-protagonist.
Imidlalo idla ngokuba yeyona nto abantu bayikhumbula kakhulu ngosuku olulandelayoUkusuka kwimidlalo yebhodi yakudala (nokuba kumdlalo we-trivia olungiselelwe umntu omalunga nenkwenkwe yokuzalwa) ukuya kuzingelwa ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle, ukhuphiswano lwe-impromptu, imiceli mngeni yekaraoke yasekhaya okanye yepong yebhiya, nantoni na ebandakanya ukuthatha inxaxheba kunye nokuhleka yongeza kwinkumbulo yepati.
Iinkcukacha ezenza umahluko kulo naliphi na iqela
Ngaphandle kwesikimu esikhulu, kukho izinto ezincinci ezinokuthi zenze iqela lisuke "elungileyo" ukuya "kwinkohlakalo".Enye yazo kukusebenzisa iziphumo ezikhethekileyo kunye nezixhobo zokuqaqambisa amaxesha athile: i-confetti kunye noomatshini be-streamer bomzuzwana wekeyiki, iibhokisi ezikhanyayo okanye imiqondiso ekhanyayo enemiyalezo eyenzelwe umntu, iifotofowuni ezinamabinzana entsomi eqela okanye idolophu, njl.
Kwakhona unxibelelwano lubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba lubonakalaCacisa iipowusta ezineshedyuli yomsebenzi kwiminyhadala yasekhaya, izimemo eziyilwe kakuhle zamatheko okuzalwa kwabantu abadala, izikhumbuzo ze-WhatsApp ezinolwazi oluphambili, okanye i-mini-website okanye isiganeko semidiya yoluntu kwimisitho emikhulu. Okukhona usenzela abantu lula, kokukhona kuya kuba ngcono ukuzimasa kunye nomoya.
Musa ukulibala imiba ebonakalayo kunye nokuthintelaUkuba itheko lingaphandle, yiba nesicwangciso sokugcina xa kunemvula; ukuba sisiganeko esikhulu, sebenzisa ulawulo lofikelelo kunye nomthamo wokukhawulela; ukuba kuya kubakho abantwana, babonelele ngeendawo ezikhuselekileyo neziphantsi kolawulo; ukuba ulindele umdaniso omninzi, qinisekisa ukuba umgangatho awutyibiliki; ukuba kukho naziphi na izinto ezibuthathaka ekhaya, kungcono ukuzisusa. Ezi ziinkcukacha ezinokuthi zingabonakali, kodwa zithintela ukumangalisa okungathandekiyo.
Ngokubhekiselele kwizinto ezothusayo, eyona nto isebenza kakuhle idla ngokuba kokona kuchukunyiswa ngumntu.: iividiyo ezinemiyalezo evela kubantu abangakwaziyo ukuzimasa, iikhapsuli zexesha ezineenkumbulo eziza kuvulwa kwiminyaka embalwa, izipho zentsebenziswano apho undwendwe ngalunye lunikela ngenqaku okanye i-anecdote, imidlalo eyothusayo evela kumhlobo osenyongweni oculayo okanye owenza umdlalo ohlekisayo... Awudingi kuchitha kakhulu, yenza nje umqondiso ofanelekileyo.
Ekugqibeleni, ukubhiyozela kakuhle kungumbandela wesimo sengqondo kunohlahlo lwabiwo-mali.Ukuba nesizathu esicacileyo sombhiyozo, ukunyamekela abantu abazayo, ukulungiselela iinkcukacha ezithile ngothando, kunye nokuzivumela ukuba uhlukane nesiqhelo sesiqhelo kwenza naliphi na iqela-ukusuka kumbhiyozo omkhulu we-saint patron ukuya kumhla wokuzalwa olula ekhaya-iba ngumzuzu ohlala uhleli kwinkumbulo yakhe wonke umntu onamava kuyo.
