Alithandabuzeki elokuba ukhathalelo lwemini ngumthombo wosulelo lwazo zonke iintlobo kunye neentlobo, kungoko abantwana begula rhoqo unyaka wonke. Ngaphandle koku kwaye yinto eqhelekileyo, abazali bahamba ngokukhawuleza ukuya kugqirha wabantwana ukuze bafumane uhlobo oluthile lonyango oluya kunceda ukunciphisa iimpawu zezi meko.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo sikuxelela indlela yokuphepha, kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuba abantwana bagule kwaye bagule kwindawo yokugcina abantwana.
Kutheni abantwana begula kwindawo yokugcina abantwana?
Uphononongo olwahlukeneyo lubonisa ukuba abantwana baya kwicareer Bagula malunga namaxesha ali-10 ukuya kwali-12 ngonyaka. Iimeko zokuphefumula zezona ziqhelekileyo, ngaphandle kokulibala ezinye iintlobo okanye iiklasi zezifo ezifana nezo zichaphazela isisu okanye amehlo. Yinto eqhelekileyo, ke ngoko, ukuba abantwana babe neempumlo kunye nokukhohlela kuwo wonke unyaka wesikolo. Izizathu okanye izizathu zale meko zezi zilandelayo:
- Ukuvezwa okunamandla kwiintsholongwane kunye neebhaktheriya zazo zonke iintlobo. Kukho abantwana abaninzi kwiklasi nganye, into ekhuthaza ukosulelwa kweentsholongwane ezinjalo kubo bonke abantwana.
- Amajoni omzimba wabantwana ayomelelanga njengaleyo yabantu abadala. Ukhuselo lubuthathaka kwaye alukhulanga kungoko bethanda ukugula.
- Esinye isizathu kungenxa yokuba abantwana abancinci babamba yonke into, ebeka izandla emlonyeni. Le yinto ethanda iimeko zokuphefumla okanye zamathumbu.
- Ukuhlamba izandla akuqhelekanga kwaye ukungcola kwenza iintsholongwane zisasazeke ngokulula kakhulu.
Ngaba kungcono ukuqala i-kindergarten kamva?
Ngenxa yoku, abazali abaninzi bacinga ngokuthatha abantwana babo baye kukhathalelo lwasemini kamva. Kuyinyani ukuba abo baqala i-kindergarten kamva, Baneyona nkqubo ikhulileyo yomzimba yokuzikhusela ngoko kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuba baphele besenza izinto ezimbi. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kwento yokuba i-frequency isezantsi kakhulu, kuqhelekile kubo ukuba bafumane enye imeko kuyo yonke le khosi.
Yintoni omawuyenze ukuthintela ukugula kwabantwana kwindawo yokunyamekela abantwana
Kukho uluhlu lwezikhokelo okanye iingcebiso oko kunokunceda umntwana angaguli lula xa esiya kwicareer:
- Kuhle ukuba abazali baqhubeke isicwangciso sokugonywa kwabantwana. Izitofu zokugonya zisebenza ngokuchasene nesenzo seentsholongwane kunye neebhaktheriya. Abantwana abafane bagule xa befumene amayeza afanelekileyo okugonya.
- Ukuncancisa inceda ekuthinteleni izifo ezahlukeneyo. Kukutya okutyebileyo ngezondlo ezininzi ezinceda ukomeleza ukhuseleko lwabantwana.
- Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bakhuthaze umkhwa wokuhlamba izandla amaxesha amaninzi ngosuku. Ukuhlamba izandla ngundoqo xa kuziwa ekuphepheni usulelo olunokwenzeka. Iintsholongwane ezininzi kunye neebhaktheriya zikhona ezandleni, yingakho kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazigcine becocekile kakhulu.
- Nangona iyinto engenziwa ngabazali abaninzi, kubalulekile ukushiya umntwana ekhaya ukuba uyagula. Kukho izifo ezithile ezisasazekayo kwaye zosulela ngokukhawuleza, nto leyo eyandayo xa umntwana eseklasini nabanye abantwana.
Ngamafutshane, Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abantwana bagule xa besiya kwicareer. Iiklasi zingumthombo wosulelo kuzo zonke iintlobo zeentsholongwane kunye neebhaktheriya kwaye ukhuselo lwabantwana alunamandla njengabo abantu abadala. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngayo kwaye uphephe ukosulelwa ziintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeemeko kangangoko kunokwenzeka.