Ngoku ekubeni unyaka wesikolo uphelile, mhlawumbi sele unamabanga abantwana bakho ezandleni zakho. Ukuba amanqaku ebemahle, kusenokwenzeka ukuba nonke nizele luvuyo nokuba abantwana bade bazuze ibhaso ngomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle. Ukuba amabakala aye amabi, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubuso obubi buya kuba buxhaphake kakhulu kwiintsuku ezizayo, kunye nezohlwayo kunye nokurhoxiswa kwamalungelo.
Amanqaku anebali emva kwawo
Kuyimfuneko ukuba abazali baqonde ukuba abantwana babo abangomabanga abawafumanayo, nokuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo yimigudu eyenziwa ebudeni bonyaka wesikolo kungekhona inani elingako ephepheni. Amabakala axhotyiswa zizinto ezininzi zangaphandle, ezifana noxinzelelo, ukuxhalaba, iziganeko ezifunyenweyo, njl. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba abantwana abafundanga kakuhle ngenxa yokuba babengenabuchule bokufunda obuchanekileyo kodwa bazama ngamandla.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba abantwana abakhange benze nzame kuba becinga ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba benze njalo... Ngamafutshane, mhlawumbi baye babizwa ngokuba ‘zizidenge’ esikolweni okanye beve ekhaya okanye kwenye indawo. ; 'Andazi ukuba kutheni uzama ngamandla ukuba awuzukuyilungisa.' Umntwana obonakala eyonqena ngumntwana nje ongenamdla kwaye mhlawumbi unokungazithembi.
Ukuba ngokwenene umntwana akenzi nzame kuba engaziva ethanda kwaye engakhathali nokuba makenze ntoni na, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba akayiva intshukumisa ayidingayo. Abantwana kufuneka bazive ukuba oko bakwenzayo kufeza injongo, bazive bekuthanda... Qonda ukuba zeziphi iitalente zakho ozalwa nazo.
Ngokomzekelo, umfundi wesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo ochitha imini ezoba akafanele ajongwe ngasemva kuba ‘akanikelanga ngqalelo eklasini.’ Mhlawumbi uziva ungaqondwa kakuhle ungazi ngokwenene ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe... Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba, akukho mntu uye waqaphela indlela azoba ngayo kwaye mhlawumbi ikamva lakhe liya kuba kukufunda uBugcisa obuhle. Ukuba umntu ukuxelela oku, ngoko uya kuziva ukhuthazwa ukuba uqhubeke ufunda, kuba uya kuba nenjongo ... Kwelinye icala, ukuba bakubiza ngokuba livila ngenxa yokungahoyi, uya kucinga ukuba yinyani, ukuba kunjalo. awufanelanga umzamo kwaye uya kushiya izifundo zakho ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye uchithe italente yakho yendalo.
Inkuthazo ngaphezu kwamabanga
Ukuba umntwana okanye ofikisayo unentshukumisa nomnqweno wokwenza izinto kakuhle, oko kuya kuba kuxa amabanga aya kuphucuka phantse ngokuzenzekelayo. Kwaye nokuba azikho zibalaseleyo, akukho nto iya kwenzeka. Mntu ngamnye unobuchule obahlukeneyo yaye ubhetele kwezinye izinto yaye umbi ngakumbi kwezinye, yaye oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho akaphumelelanga kwizibalo kwaye upasa ngemibala eqaqambileyo kodwa ufumana amanqaku amahle kakhulu kulwimi, okanye ngokuphendululekileyo. Ezi ziimpawu zeziphi izinto ongcono kuzo kwaye zeziphi izinto ombi kuzo. Kuyafuneka ukuba uqwalaselwe ukwazi ukuba yintoni italente yabantwana kwaye ubakhokele kuloo ndlela ukuze bangaphulukani nenkuthazo. Eyona nto ifanele ixatyiswe ngokwenene kumanqaku ngumzamo emva kwenani ngalinye.