ukuba ngumzali ngokuqaphela iye yafumana ukuthandwa kwiminyaka yakutshanje njengenye indlela yemfundo yemveli. Ukuba ngumzali oqaphelayo kulungelelaniswa namaxesha amatsha, ukumema abazali ukuba baphile ngoku, ukuba baphendule kubantwana babo ngendlela ezolileyo kunye nengqiqo, kunye nokuseka unxibelelwano olusekwe kweyona ntlonipho ipheleleyo.
Kwinqaku elilandelayo siza kuthetha ngokubanzi malunga nokuba ngumzali oqaphelayo kunye indlela enokusetyenziswa ngayo.
Yintoni ukukhulisa ingqondo?
Ukuba ngumzali okuqaphelayo luhlobo lwemfundo olusekwe kwingqiqo kwaye lugxile kubukho bengqondo kunxibelelwano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Inokuthi ithathelwe ingqalelo njengobuchule apho abazali baya kujonga ngononophelo iimvakalelo zabo kunye nokuziphatha kunye indlela abanempembelelo ethile kubudlelwane nabantwana babo.
Ukuba ngumzali okuqaphelayo kugxininisa ngokukhethekileyo ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane obunovelwano nentlonipho phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Kungenxa yoko le nto abazali bemele babe ngokwenyama nangokweemvakalelo ngenjongo yokusabela kwiimfuno ezahlukahlukeneyo zabantwana babo ngendlela ephumelelayo.
Iimpawu eziphambili zobuzali abazi
Ingqwalasela epheleleyo
Isiseko ekuya kusekwa kuso ukuba ngumzali osezingqondweni Yingqalelo epheleleyo. Enyanisweni, kuthetha ukuba abazali baya kuqwalasela baze bacinge ngendlela abasabela ngayo ngaphambi kokuba baphendule kwizenzo zabantwana babo.
Ukwamkelwa okungenamiqathango
Ukwamkelwa kwabantwana ngokungenamiqathango asiyonto yimbi ngaphandle kokubamkela njengoko benjalo, bobabini benesidima kunye neziphene zabo. Oku kwamkelwa kuya kuvumela ukudala indawo yokhuseleko nentembeko apho abantwana banenkululeko epheleleyo yokwenza ngaphandle kokoyika ukugwetywa.
Ukuzazi
Olu phawu lubandakanya ukuba nolwazi ngalo lonke ixesha iimvakalelo neengcinga zomntu nendlela eziluphembelela ngayo ulwalamano nabantwana.
Unxibelelwano olunovelwano
Unxibelelwano lovelwano luphawu olubaluleke kakhulu lobuzali obunenkathalo. Abazali kufuneka bamamele ngenkuthalo abantwana babo kwaye uvelwano ngokupheleleyo. Olu hlobo lonxibelelwano luya komeleza unxibelelwano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana.
Indlela yokwenza ukuba ngumzali osezingqondweni
Akukho lula okanye kulula ukwenza ubuzali ngokuqaphela. Kuthatha umonde kunye nexesha ukwenza ngokufanelekileyo. Ngezantsi sikunika izikhokelo ezinokukunceda ukuba uzisebenzise kwimfundo yabantwana bakho:
- Unokuyibandakanya kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla ukucamngca okanye umthambo wokuphumla oko kukuvumela ukuba uthathe ingqalelo epheleleyo. Le mithambo inokukunceda ukuba uphendule ngendlela ezolileyo kwizenzo kunye nokuziphatha kwabantwana bakho.
- Musa ukuphazamisa umntwana wakho xa kufuneka akuxelele into kwaye usebenzise unxibelelwano olusebenzayo. Kuhle ukunikela ingqalelo koko bakuxelela kona. kwaye babonise uvelwano oluthile kwiimvakalelo zabo.
- Kuphephe ukusabela kwaye ukhethe ukuphendula. Thatha ixesha olidingayo ukucamngca nokucinga ngaphambi kokuba wenze ngokwendlela yokuziphatha komntwana wakho.
- Kubazali abaziyo, abantwana Bamele baveze iimvakalelo zabo ngokukhululekileyo, ukuze bazive bekhuselekile ngamaxesha onke. Unokukhuthaza ukuzibonakalisa ngokuqinisekisa iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho.
- Ukukhulisa nokufundisa abantwana akuyondlwan’ iyanetha, ngoko ke kubalulekile Ziqhelise ukuvelana nawe. Abazali kufuneka bazinike imvume yokwenza iimpazamo kwaye bafunde kuzo. Kulungile ukwenza iimpazamo njengoko kuyindlela yokukhula nokuphucula njengabazali.
Ngamafutshane, ukuba ngumzali oqapheleyo yindlela esebenzayo yokufundisa abantwana kwiminyaka yetekhnoloji. Ngolu hlobo lwabazali, abazali Banokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle nabantwana babo kunye nokukhuthaza ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo ngamaxesha onke.