Eli licandelo lesine nelokugqibela lezimvo ezingama-30 ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo ebomini kwaye ube nguwe. Kweli nqaku siqulunqa kwaye sandise iingcebiso ezilishumi zokugqibela ezibalulekileyo zokwakha ubomi obusekwe ukuzithemba kunye khu seleko kwenye. Ukusebenzisa ezi zimo zengqondo kuya kukunceda wonwabe ubudlelwane obunempilo kwaye uzele, uphucule eyakho impilo-ntle ngokweemvakalelo kwaye ufikelele eyakho iinjongo zobuqu. Fumana indlela yokuguqula ubomi bakho ukuqala namhlanje!
Mamela ilizwi lakho langaphakathi
Kwihlabathi eligcwele ingxolo kunye nezimvo, kubalulekile ukuphuhlisa isakhono so mamela ilizwi lakho langaphakathi. Intliziyo yakho nengqiqo zilukhokelo oluthembekileyo olukuxelela oko kulungileyo. Suka apha iimpembelelo ezimbi kwaye uzingqonge ngabantu abaxhasa izigqibo zakho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, xubusha iingcamango zakho nomntu osondeleyo kwaye uvakalise iingcamango zakho ngentlonelo. Xa ujongene nezigqibo ezibalulekileyo, zivumele ukuba uthathe ixesha lokucinga, kodwa hlala ukhumbula ukuba njalo unyanisekile kuwe.
Qaphela amanqanaba akho oxinzelelo kwaye uthathe ikhefu
El uxinzelelo Isenokuba lutshaba oluthuleyo oluchaphazela impilo yakho yomzimba nengqondo. Ukuchonga amanqanaba oxinzelelo lwakho kunye nokuthatha ixesha lokuqhawula kubalulekile. Ziqhelise ubuchule obunje ukuphefumla okungqondweni, ukucamngca okanye uvale nje amehlo akho kwaye wonwabe okomzuzwana yehlisa umoya. Nakwezona ntsuku zixakekileyo, ukuphumla ngokukhawuleza kwengqondo kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu. Khumbula ukuba ukuphumla akuyonto yokunethezeka, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukugcina impilo yakho mveliso y ibhalansi.
Kwakhona, bandakanya imisebenzi ekwenza uphumle, njenge Hamba ngaphandle, mamela umculo okanye uqhelisele ukuzonwabisa. Ukubandakanya ezi khefu kwindlela yakho yemihla ngemihla kunokuphucula kakhulu mgangatho wobomi.
Qala ukuziva ubuhle bemizuzu emincinci
La lonwabo Ayisoloko ihlala kwiziganeko ezinkulu zobomi. Qala ukuxabisa kwaye ukonwabele imizuzwana emincinci ubomi bemihla ngemihla obukunika yona. Ngokuqwalasela a kwasa ngelixa usela ikofu, ude uzive utshani phantsi kweenyawo zakho ezingenanto, le mizuzu inobuhle obukhethekileyo obunokukutyebisa.
Dibanisa izenzo zokubulela ukuqonda le mimangaliso mincinci. Rhoqo ebusuku bhala izinto ezintathu ngendlela oziva ngayo. Enkosi. Ukwenza njalo kuya kukunceda uqeqeshe ingqondo yakho ukuba igxile kwizinto ezilungileyo kwaye iphucule yakho impilo-ntle ngokweemvakalelo.
Zamkele izinto nokuba "azigqibelelanga"
Uphendlo lwe ukugqibelela Inokuba ngumqobo ekukhuleni kwakho. Kunoko, funda ukwamkela nokukwamkela ukungafezeki, kokubini kwabanye nakuwe. Ukugqibelela kuxhomekeke kwaye kaninzi akuyomfuneko. Zixabise ubuhle bezinto ezilula neziyinyani, njengamasebe omthi ojijelwe ngumoya: ukungafezeki, kodwa izele ibali y umlinganiswa.
Ukwamkela esi simo sengqondo kuya kukuvumela ukuba ube ngakumbi unyamezelo nawe kunye nabanye, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo olunxulumene nokuthanda ukugqibelela. Le ndlela iya kukunceda uxabise zonke izinto ezintle onazo kwaye wonwabe ngakumbi ubomi.
Lixesha lokuba ugxile kwiinjongo zakho kwaye uzilandele yonke imihla
Cwangcisa iinjongo ezicacileyo kwaye ukusebenza ngazo yonke imihla ngundoqo ekuqhubeleni phambili ngenjongo. Njengoko uBeppo Barrendero watshoyo kwinoveli Momo, "Imfihlelo kukuthatha inyathelo elinye ngexesha." Yiba nomfanekiso ngqondweni weenjongo zakho, uziqhawule zibe ngamanyathelo amancinci, kwaye ugxile ekwenzeni inkqubela encinci rhoqo. ngemini.
Ubomi, ngokutsho kweBeppo Sweeper
"Akufanele ucinge ngesitrato sonke ngaxeshanye, uyaqonda? Kufuneka ucinge ngenyathelo elilandelayo, impembelelo elandelayo, ukutshayela okulandelayo. Kumnandi ke : kaloku umsebenzi wenziwa kakuhle. Ngequbuliso, uyaqonda ukuba, inyathelo ngenyathelo, isitrato sonke sitshayelwe.”
Chitha ixesha ucwangcisa iintsuku zakho, ubeka phambili izinto eziza kukusondeza kwiinjongo zakho. amaphupha. Gcina ugxininiso lokungaguquguquki kwaye uyonwabele inkqubo, kungekuphela nje ekufezekiseni i Indawo yokufikela yokugqibela.
Chaza indlela oziva ngayo
Iimvakalelo ezicinezelayo okanye iingcinga zinokutshabalalisa impilo-ntle ngokweemvakalelo. Funda ukuchaza indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngokuqiniseka nangentlonelo. Nokuba kunjalo uvuyo, lusizi o umsindo, zonke iimvakalelo zifanelekile kwaye zifanele ukuqondwa.
Musa ukuzifihla emva kwesigqubuthelo. Bhiyozela impumelelo yakho kwaye ujongane nokusilela ngenkalipho eguqukayo ubunyani. Khumbula ukuba ubunzima ikwangamathuba okufunda nokomeleza. Jongana nabo nge ngqondweni kwaye ngaphandle koloyiko lokutshintsha.
Ukukhuthaza ubuhlobo bakho obubaluleke kakhulu
Las ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo Ziyintsika ebalulekileyo kwimpilo-ntle yeemvakalelo. Zibekele ixesha nomgudu ukuze uhlakulele abona bahlobo bakho baxabisekileyo. Cacisa ukuba uzixabise kangakanani kwaye ufumane iindlela zokwabelana amaxesha okonwaba nabo
Khumbula ukuba awudingi inkitha yabantu abasondeleyo, kodwa abambalwa abakuxabisa ngokwenene ukuba ungubani kwaye baya kuba nawe ebunzimeni nasebubini. Ubudlelwane obunempilo buyaphucula ubomi bakho kwaye bukunike inkxaso ngamaxesha anzima.
Gxila kwizinto onokuzilawula
Sihlala sichitha amandla sixhalabile ngezinto ezingaphaya kwamandla ethu. ulawulo. Yitshintshe ugxininiso lwakho koko unokukuphembelela. Oku akukonyusa nje ukusebenza kwakho, kodwa kunye nokuziva kwakho amandla omntu.
Ngokomzekelo, kunokuba uzixhalabise ngemozulu, cwangcisa ezinye iindlela zokunandipha usuku, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iimeko zinjani. Ukufunda ukuyeka ukungalawuleki kukuvumela ukuba ugxininise kwizinto ezibalulekileyo.
Ingqondo kufuneka ikholelwe ukuba iyakwazi ukwenza into ngaphambi kokuyenza
Tu ngqondweni idlala indima ebalulekileyo kwiimpumelelo zakho. Ukukholelwa kwizakhono zakho linyathelo lokuqala ukuya mpu melelo. Chonga kwaye ubuyisele iingcinga ezingakhiyo ngeziqinisekiso kulungile. Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni weenjongo zakho kwaye wenze ngokuzimisela.
Uphuhliso lwe isimo sengqondo esakhayo Ayiphuculi nje kuphela ukuzithemba kwakho kodwa komeleza ukomelela kwakho xa ujongene nemingeni. Yondla incoko yakho yangaphakathi ngamazwi akhuthazayo kunye nethemba.
Zive ukuba utyebe kwaye unethamsanqa kangakanani ngoku
La mbulelo Sisixhobo esinamandla sokuphucula imbono yakho ngobomi. Nakumaxesha anzima, cinga ngako konke onakho: uphahla phezu kwentloko yakho, ukufikelela kumanzi acocekileyo, ukutya nokhuseleko. Ziqonde ezi iintsikelelo kukunceda ugcine a sengqondo esifanelekileyo.
Dibanisa lo mkhwa yonke imihla, ubhale phantsi ubuncinane izinto ezintathu onombulelo ngazo ngaphambi kokuba ulale. Lo msebenzi olula unokutshintsha ngokupheleleyo ngqondweni.
Ukusebenzisa ezi zimo zengqondo ze-30 ebomini bakho kuya kukuvumela ukuba ube yinyani, uqiniseke kwaye wonwabe. Qala ukusebenza kuzo namhlanje kwaye ujonge ukuba yonke into ekungqongileyo iqala njani ukutshintsha ibe ngcono.